Cheers guys - Thanks for the hug & alcohol - I needed that
I have told my daughter that if he is sooo bothered about a card - for his birthday in February - I am going to get the biggest **ckin card I can find - then see if he says I don't care then !!!!!!!!
In the mean time I've sent him an email card - just to shut him up & start enjoying my time off work
A cuppa tea please

& some brekky - but don't know what I want