ok this is gonna seem really rude but i genuinly dont mean it that way, just cant think how to word it better so forgive my ignorance lol
At the end of the day, we buy a ticket for the show, all he needs to give back is a show, thats what we pay for, it's our choice to travel far and stay in hotels etc, he doesnt even have to recognise that let alone reward us for it. Some people think its too much paying anyhting above the ticket price, personally i have been in some great seats and seen some great shows i wouldnt have been able to otherwise without paying more, doesnt really make me more of a fan just my personal preference, i see meet and greets the same way, everyone justifies their own price, some think it should be free while others are happy to pay for the privilage, it isnt part of the show so i see it that i am paying for something seperate to the show if that makes sense

Other artists charge too, it isn't a given right for fans to meet their idols, so everyone makes their own choice as to whether they want to pay for the opportunity or wait for the off-chance that he does another signing etc. I dont really see the big debate, you wither want to or you dont
None of that probably makes sense but hey i'm hormonal

so again i apologise if it comes accross completely the wrong way