I've never considered her a close friend so no offence taken tink

, it's just really annoying y'know personally for me myspace, facebook, forum accounts etc are personal and something I wouldn't share no matter how involved or together I was with someone but I also appreciate that each and everyone is different and has different standards. I can't really phone her no because I do not know her landline and calling a mobile will cost loads.
I know last night she messaged me; "No offence but why are you so obsessed with Michael Jackson ?" I replied in a note. Wondering if that
really was my friend or this gf though I sort of think it was genuinly hers but I don't like doubting people especially those I think of as friends !