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Old 26 Sep 2011, 23:40   #48726
Sue K
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Originally Posted by The Flying Mouse View Post
Most probably.

There are two kinds of funerals.

Sober sedate affairs where we stand around making small talk and toasting the dead with mournful faces, or..........

A full blown celebration of the dear departeds life.

Although i've been to a good few of the first type of funeral, and think they do have their place as a respectful memorial of remembrance, I believe the second type is better all round.


There is enough sadness to the day as it is, so we might as well have a party and send the deceased on their way in a way befitting everything they mean to us.
We'll drink, we'll sing, we'll tell stories, we'll drink, we'll drink again, we'll sing a bit more, then (just for a change) we'll have a drink.

Come to think of it, I think we try to give the kind of funeral we ourselves would like to have when it's our turn.

My Great Aunties funeral was legend.
I played a 13 hour gig for that one.

It's not for everyone, but I find it works for us
I'm sorry for your loss, Mousie, but it sounds like a solid plan to me. The greatest compliment I ever received was when at a passed on aunt's funeral, a former fiance' of my dearest passed on dad said when she found me in the middle of a group of cousins kicking up a giggle "I should have known ! As long as you're alive, your father will never be dead !" ... He liked to kick up his heels a bit, too... lol ...

S ... xo
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