Not sure if i'm right, but i'm reading the "tolerate" bit as meaning, we should all tolerate on both sides. Think a lot of people are seeing it as it's meant only for the ones who are hurling abuse. Everyone should have an opinion and people forever being critised for it, makes for a lot of people not posting how they feel for fear of being critisised. I know I for one have gone to hit the reply button a lot lately and thought better of it after seeing how my posts may be read by some people.
Deb