I have to agree with you, about debates being discussed properly and as this thread has gone on I have been able to see other points of view more clearly. Whoever mentioned the fact that people on here come from a number of different countries and that can sometimes make for misunderstanding was exactly right. People can sometimes put an opinion a certain way and for want of a better explaination, put it in a way that may sound ok to them but not to someone else who reads it. I guess misunderstandings and differences of opinion will cause upset from time to time, and it's best to get it out inthe open sooner rather than later so things can get smoothed out. I know as I have done this myself as some people did not agree with what I wrote on my last post, and after reading any comeback on it I have to say my views have changed also, But as I wrote at the very end of it, I didn't want anyone to think I was being rude or disrespectful as I meant to malice in that post at all. Although I do think its very sad that people don't want to join in topics but I feel that after a lot of things that have been said in this topic, and feelings are out in the open, that everyone, myself included will allow for differences in opinion in the future which I'm sure can only be a good thing, now we know how other people are feeling and how much our words can matter.
Chrissy
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