actually what i wrote was this;[ how nice just the sort of thing i come on here to see, it is nothing to do with being a baby it is to do with feelings and the sooner you realise that the better

do you not realise saying this about one person makes other people who have weight problems feel uncomfortable ?]
now it may not be your problem if people are overweight but it would be nice if you didnt go so over board on the insults, as i really dont think they are alltogether needed.
i dont go on the merged thread as i know that this is the kind of thing i would find on their...it is so sad...and uncalled for.