It really bugs me when people single out bigger people and claim they're abnormal or something. My little brother is a big lad for his age and it hurts him a lot. He gets called Hagrid (harry potter) at school and it's upset him a lot. It annoys me because he's a cool wee boy but the bullies don't bother about that. When he's older I think he'll realise that size means nothing. Look at Meat. He's a big guy, but it hasn't kept him back. He's a legend and a lot of women wouldn't say no, me included!
Personally, I prefer a fella with a bit of weight about him. I'd feel safer with a big guy that a skinny bloke. Plus he'd be more cuddly