UPDATE!!!
Looks like I waited too long.. he asked for time to think and so i gave him some time but he got back with his ex. who stays 20miles away on monday as i found out today.
Never mind.. he had a similar incident when he asked me to go on a night out but i couldnt go.
Turns out he was still with the girl when he asked but would have halted it if i had gone
Plenty more out there I hope!!!
Karin is angry at him though. his loss not mine.
Did u all have a nice christmas??
hugs
leeann