Original Sin's Agony Page. - Page 14

heat · 24 Jul 2003, 19:37

I'd keep drinking, hun

Although, the bombs are worrying - hafta admit - i was a tad worried about you - good to know that you are ok

Sit back on the beach, shades on

and drink in hand....

Tim · 24 Jul 2003, 21:11

Original Sin,

A bomb....mmm... don't know. What do you think yourself? Is it save to stay?
Count the + and the - points together, and come to a conclusion. That is the only advice that i can give you.

The Butcher

JJ · 27 Jul 2003, 15:55

Tim,
just my silly sense of humour... thought it might make you smile

[/quote]

Very funny !!!!!!!

JJ · 27 Jul 2003, 15:55

Oh Plop!!!!!! I still can't get it to highlight!!!!

Terri · 27 Jul 2003, 16:05

If you mean quote, JJ........neither can I, however hard I try (and believe me I've tried, and tried)

Uncle Tim Help......think we need your help!!!!!!!!!!

Testify · 28 Jul 2003, 13:34

aunty sin/uncle tim

i need help, i have ran out of sweets and coke!

should i got to Jens house and nick her coke? or do you have another idea. oh n theres no food in the house and a big stack of pots in the kitchen need doing, a lil help please??

Bren · 28 Jul 2003, 23:36

Quote:

Originally Posted by Testify

aunty sin/uncle tim

i need help, i have ran out of sweets and coke!

oh n theres no food in the house and a big stack of pots in the kitchen need doing, a lil help please??

Dear Testify,
Aunty Bat, suggests..
.first you wash the stack of pots ( a little hard work never hurt anyone

)
Then you go shopping stack up on supplies of sweets and coke.......so you don't have this problem in future
problem solved

Ihope you did not mind me replying Uncle Tim

Testify · 28 Jul 2003, 23:45

ty, i did the pots hehe, erm i dont got money, well i do, but im savin for the concert so i can buy lots of stuff hehe

Jen where u live?? im cumin to get your coke!

Tim · 29 Jul 2003, 00:12

Dear Bren,

I don't mind you are replying to that. I wasn't able to. Sorry Testify.
Think i would have given the same advise, only in worse English.

The Butcher, and here Uncle Tim

Bren · 03 Aug 2003, 17:40

Dear Aunty Sin,
Don't know if you're back yet from your holiday
Thought i'd write because i wanted to say.....
I hope your holiday was good and that everything is fine
That you are well rested, and had a really great time.
Uncle Tim's solved all our problems, like he should,
Looked after us well, but then you knew he would.
He's done a good job has Uncle Tim
You should be very proud of him.

We've been well looked after by Uncle Tim
but even so ...we've missed you Sin

Bren

original sin · 03 Aug 2003, 19:41

Dear Bren

Yet again your words are kind and true
I knew Uncle Tim could take care of you
He has done a good job and shown insight
I knew his bark was worse than his bite!
I’m back at home and have missed you all
I just hope now my computer doesn’t stall!
As for my time away, probably best not to ask!
I have a poorly ear, and the pain I cannot mask.
Still I have managed to get about and have fun.
So things ain’t so bad when all’s said and done.

Bren · 03 Aug 2003, 22:57

Dear Sin,
I'm sorry to hear of your pain

But it's lovely to have you back with us again

I hope you're feeling better soon
And my best wishes i send
You've been much missed here
By your friends.

Bren

shadow1000001 · 04 Aug 2003, 01:51

Dear Auntie Sin,

Since you seem better than Ann Landers, I will ask you for advice!!
My husband is driving me crazy!!! Is it just male menopause or should I trade him in

Maria

original sin · 04 Aug 2003, 15:17

Hi Shadow

As I have no idea who Ann Landers is I’ll have to take that as a compliment

Regarding your husband, it is quite difficult to judge what the problems or cause may be.
It could well be that he is just driving you crazy because he is a male and they have a habit of driving women crazy. Remember they never grow up their toys just get more expensive!

The male menopause could be a reason. Has he started doing any of the following:-

* looking in the mirror more often?
* walking with a “Mick Jagger swagger”?
* taken to riding a motorbike?
* Holding his belly in as he walks down the High Street?
* Spending more money on toiletries?
* Starting D.I.Y jobs, and moving on to another project before finishing the first?

Whatever the root cause you have a variety of options open to you:-

Whilst a trade in is certainly a consideration, I would suggestion some “window shopping” first see what’s on the market and if you like the goods.

Or
You could tell him he’s being an absolute plonker and give him a fixed time period to get his act together

Or
You could totally ignore him, book yourself into a spa for a week(using his credit card) and chill.

Or
Invite all your Meat Loaf friends over for a long weekend of loud Meat Loaf music, raucous fun, excess alcohol and party games. He may then realise what he’s missing out on.

(I like this one)
Or
Get a friend to phone you and if he answers hang up, if you get to the phone first say something like “Can’t talk now. You know who” and hang up. Do this a few times and he may start paying more attention to you.

Hope this helps

shadow1000001 · 04 Aug 2003, 21:50

Thank you Original Sin. Your advice was extremely helpful!! I like the Meat Loaf party too!!
You are a peach!!

Maria

Tim · 05 Aug 2003, 01:30

Dear Aunty Sin,

I don't know what is going on with me... i'm very angry lately. On everything. The only reason that i can find is the stress that i've got from my work and the stupidity of other people.
What can i do about it..... cause it is no fun at all. I'm argueing a lot lately.... Please help me.

The Butcher.

Bren · 05 Aug 2003, 11:41

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tim

. i'm very angry lately. On everything. The only reason that i can find is the stress that i've got from my work and the stupidity of other people.
What can i do about it..... cause it is no fun at all. I'm argueing a lot lately.... Please help me.

The Butcher.

Dear Tim,
If you want my opinion ,it is the stress that is causing you to feel this way.Stress has a very negative effect on people because it is "draining", it eats up all your energy.
My advice,...you need to make time for you...to do things that help you unwind , relax...it is VERY important to do so.Try and set aside some time each day to do something that you enjoy doing,something that takes you away from the stress.....like your painting.,listening to music you love, anything that makes you feel good , happy.Concentrate on the good and the positive in your life,then the negative feelings caused by the stress that are making you argue a lot and feel angry about things, should lessen, and go away in time........i'm speaking from experience.Ihope this helps
Bren

Aunty Sin i hope you didn't mind me replying, but i can't ignore a plea for help from a friend in distress.

original sin · 05 Aug 2003, 16:41

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tim

Dear Aunty Sin,
I don't know what is going on with me... i'm very angry lately. On everything. The only reason that i can find is the stress that i've got from my work and the stupidity of other people.
What can i do about it..... cause it is no fun at all. I'm argueing a lot lately.... Please help me.
The Butcher.

Dear Tim

I am so sorry that you are feeling this way. I think we all go though periods in life when we feel like this. What Bren has said is good solid advice. To that I would add that from experience I find it is best to deal with problems rather than try to hide them or run away from them.
There are lots of little tips and strategies for dealing with stress- you may like to try some of these........

Write your thoughts/feelings down on paper, when doing this try to imagine you are clearing your body of the negativity - tie the paper to a helium balloon, go to a clear space and let the balloon. Watch it drift away taking all your negativity and anger with it.

If a particular person is annoying or hurting you find a small little figure/toy person, imagine this figure is the person in question. Place this behind the toilet- sit it on the pipes for the outlet. Every time you flush the toilet you have the satisfaction of knowing you are sending all your crap on to your annoyance!

Sit on the edge of a bath, with you feet inside. Fill the bath with water to just above your ankles. Now you have to look inside your self and picture all your anger and frustration. Does it have a colour? Imagine that you have a tap on your ankles. You need to open these taps on your ankles and picture your anger flowing out of your body and into the water, now let the water out of the bath and watch your anger flow away. You can also do this is you sit with your feet in a stream or in the sea.

When everything is bottled up like this you need to be a bit selfish and make sure you have some “ME” time. Take time out to indulge yourself, you are important and need to do things just for you from time to time.

Bren wrote:

Quote:

Aunty Sin i hope you didn't mind me replying, but i can't ignore a plea for help from a friend in distress.

Of course not Bren! This is what we are all about. I think it's fantasic the way everyone is so supportive here and how we really have become a community.

Tim · 06 Aug 2003, 01:37

My dear Aunty Sin and Bren the Bat,

Thank you very much for replying. I'm doing some things as we speak / write. I took some time at the computer, downloading stuff, posting here, etc.
I'll also tried to finish some things from the past. By writing things down. From one of those things a letter came out, and i will send that to my work, were i was fired.

Thanks for you advice!!! Really enjoy it with you two around here

The Butcher

Bren · 06 Aug 2003, 19:50

That is good Tim,
I am pleased to hear this, what you are doing sounds very positive

i hope doing this will help you.Sin's advice to write down your thoughts and feelings on paper, is good advice....i do this , have always done so at times of stress or emotion, it helps you to sort out how you are feeling and why you are feeling that way.With me,when i write down my thoughts,and feelings ,i write them as poetry thats just my way of doing it..it's the same thing really. also by writing things down you are not bottling things up, you are confronting how you feel and dealing with it,which is good.

Bren

Tim · 11 Aug 2003, 00:58

I'm drowning in hate,
please,
someone help me before it is to late.

The Butcher.

Tim · 11 Aug 2003, 01:08

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tim

I'm drowning in hate,
please,
someone help me before it is to late.

The Butcher.

Nice he..... just made it...cause i'm so f*cking angry.....

original sin · 11 Aug 2003, 14:58

Tim

I'm so sorry to see that you are feeling like this again. Did you try earlier advice?
I really think you need some chill out time. Do you have friends or family that you can spend some time with and unburden yourself?
If you what to discuss via PM or email please do.

Sin x

Tim · 12 Aug 2003, 01:24

Thanks Original Sin,
I will do that. Also following up some of your advice. Thanks!!!

The Butcher.

CarolM · 12 Aug 2003, 01:33

hi aunty sin, please help me i wish to know how to deal with grief, i am going through a lot of it just now ,please help.

24 Jul 2003, 19:37	#326
heat Rampant Loafer... Join Date: 29.07.2002 Location: welshy wales Posts: 5,706	I'd keep drinking, hun Although, the bombs are worrying - hafta admit - i was a tad worried about you - good to know that you are ok Sit back on the beach, shades on and drink in hand....

24 Jul 2003, 21:11	#327
Tim The Butcher Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Westervoort, The Netherlands Posts: 10,321	Original Sin, A bomb....mmm... don't know. What do you think yourself? Is it save to stay? Count the + and the - points together, and come to a conclusion. That is the only advice that i can give you. The Butcher

27 Jul 2003, 15:55	#328
JJ Senior Loafer Join Date: 07.07.2003 Location: Near the end of the line. UK Posts: 100	Tim, just my silly sense of humour... thought it might make you smile [/quote] Very funny !!!!!!!

27 Jul 2003, 15:55	#329
JJ Senior Loafer Join Date: 07.07.2003 Location: Near the end of the line. UK Posts: 100	Oh Plop!!!!!! I still can't get it to highlight!!!!

27 Jul 2003, 16:05	#330
Terri Super T Join Date: 14.05.2003 Posts: 1,235	If you mean quote, JJ........neither can I, however hard I try (and believe me I've tried, and tried) Uncle Tim Help......think we need your help!!!!!!!!!!

28 Jul 2003, 13:34	#331
Testify ragamuffin Join Date: 21.05.2003 Location: xxx daydreaming xxx Posts: 5,023	aunty sin/uncle tim i need help, i have ran out of sweets and coke! should i got to Jens house and nick her coke? or do you have another idea. oh n theres no food in the house and a big stack of pots in the kitchen need doing, a lil help please??

28 Jul 2003, 23:45	#333
Testify ragamuffin Join Date: 21.05.2003 Location: xxx daydreaming xxx Posts: 5,023	ty, i did the pots hehe, erm i dont got money, well i do, but im savin for the concert so i can buy lots of stuff hehe Jen where u live?? im cumin to get your coke!

29 Jul 2003, 00:12	#334
Tim The Butcher Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Westervoort, The Netherlands Posts: 10,321	Dear Bren, I don't mind you are replying to that. I wasn't able to. Sorry Testify. Think i would have given the same advise, only in worse English. The Butcher, and here Uncle Tim

03 Aug 2003, 17:40	#335
Bren The Bat Join Date: 23.03.2003 Location: Roosting on a Silver-Black Phantom Bike. Posts: 10,017	Dear Aunty Sin, Don't know if you're back yet from your holiday Thought i'd write because i wanted to say..... I hope your holiday was good and that everything is fine That you are well rested, and had a really great time. Uncle Tim's solved all our problems, like he should, Looked after us well, but then you knew he would. He's done a good job has Uncle Tim You should be very proud of him. We've been well looked after by Uncle Tim but even so ...we've missed you Sin Bren

03 Aug 2003, 19:41	#336
original sin Sinner Join Date: 15.04.2003 Location: cyber space Posts: 2,457	Dear Bren Yet again your words are kind and true I knew Uncle Tim could take care of you He has done a good job and shown insight I knew his bark was worse than his bite! I’m back at home and have missed you all I just hope now my computer doesn’t stall! As for my time away, probably best not to ask! I have a poorly ear, and the pain I cannot mask. Still I have managed to get about and have fun. So things ain’t so bad when all’s said and done.

03 Aug 2003, 22:57	#337
Bren The Bat Join Date: 23.03.2003 Location: Roosting on a Silver-Black Phantom Bike. Posts: 10,017	Dear Sin, I'm sorry to hear of your pain But it's lovely to have you back with us again I hope you're feeling better soon And my best wishes i send You've been much missed here By your friends. Bren

04 Aug 2003, 01:51	#338
shadow1000001 Mega Loafer Join Date: 10.07.2003 Location: Red Deer, Alberta, Canada Posts: 2,580	Dear Auntie Sin, Since you seem better than Ann Landers, I will ask you for advice!! My husband is driving me crazy!!! Is it just male menopause or should I trade him in Maria

04 Aug 2003, 15:17	#339
original sin Sinner Join Date: 15.04.2003 Location: cyber space Posts: 2,457	Hi Shadow As I have no idea who Ann Landers is I’ll have to take that as a compliment Regarding your husband, it is quite difficult to judge what the problems or cause may be. It could well be that he is just driving you crazy because he is a male and they have a habit of driving women crazy. Remember they never grow up their toys just get more expensive! The male menopause could be a reason. Has he started doing any of the following:- * looking in the mirror more often? * walking with a “Mick Jagger swagger”? * taken to riding a motorbike? * Holding his belly in as he walks down the High Street? * Spending more money on toiletries? * Starting D.I.Y jobs, and moving on to another project before finishing the first? Whatever the root cause you have a variety of options open to you:- Whilst a trade in is certainly a consideration, I would suggestion some “window shopping” first see what’s on the market and if you like the goods. Or You could tell him he’s being an absolute plonker and give him a fixed time period to get his act together Or You could totally ignore him, book yourself into a spa for a week(using his credit card) and chill. Or Invite all your Meat Loaf friends over for a long weekend of loud Meat Loaf music, raucous fun, excess alcohol and party games. He may then realise what he’s missing out on. (I like this one) Or Get a friend to phone you and if he answers hang up, if you get to the phone first say something like “Can’t talk now. You know who” and hang up. Do this a few times and he may start paying more attention to you. Hope this helps

04 Aug 2003, 21:50	#340
shadow1000001 Mega Loafer Join Date: 10.07.2003 Location: Red Deer, Alberta, Canada Posts: 2,580	Thank you Original Sin. Your advice was extremely helpful!! I like the Meat Loaf party too!! You are a peach!! Maria

05 Aug 2003, 01:30	#341
Tim The Butcher Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Westervoort, The Netherlands Posts: 10,321	Dear Aunty Sin, I don't know what is going on with me... i'm very angry lately. On everything. The only reason that i can find is the stress that i've got from my work and the stupidity of other people. What can i do about it..... cause it is no fun at all. I'm argueing a lot lately.... Please help me. The Butcher.

06 Aug 2003, 01:37	#344
Tim The Butcher Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Westervoort, The Netherlands Posts: 10,321	My dear Aunty Sin and Bren the Bat, Thank you very much for replying. I'm doing some things as we speak / write. I took some time at the computer, downloading stuff, posting here, etc. I'll also tried to finish some things from the past. By writing things down. From one of those things a letter came out, and i will send that to my work, were i was fired. Thanks for you advice!!! Really enjoy it with you two around here The Butcher

06 Aug 2003, 19:50	#345
Bren The Bat Join Date: 23.03.2003 Location: Roosting on a Silver-Black Phantom Bike. Posts: 10,017	That is good Tim, I am pleased to hear this, what you are doing sounds very positive i hope doing this will help you.Sin's advice to write down your thoughts and feelings on paper, is good advice....i do this , have always done so at times of stress or emotion, it helps you to sort out how you are feeling and why you are feeling that way.With me,when i write down my thoughts,and feelings ,i write them as poetry thats just my way of doing it..it's the same thing really. also by writing things down you are not bottling things up, you are confronting how you feel and dealing with it,which is good. Bren

11 Aug 2003, 00:58	#346
Tim The Butcher Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Westervoort, The Netherlands Posts: 10,321	I'm drowning in hate, please, someone help me before it is to late. The Butcher.

11 Aug 2003, 14:58	#348
original sin Sinner Join Date: 15.04.2003 Location: cyber space Posts: 2,457	Tim I'm so sorry to see that you are feeling like this again. Did you try earlier advice? I really think you need some chill out time. Do you have friends or family that you can spend some time with and unburden yourself? If you what to discuss via PM or email please do. Sin x

12 Aug 2003, 01:24	#349
Tim The Butcher Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Westervoort, The Netherlands Posts: 10,321	Thanks Original Sin, I will do that. Also following up some of your advice. Thanks!!! The Butcher.

12 Aug 2003, 01:33	#350
CarolM Mega Loafer Join Date: 15.06.2003 Location: Near The End Of The Line Posts: 1,498	hi aunty sin, please help me i wish to know how to deal with grief, i am going through a lot of it just now ,please help.