Original Sin's Agony Page. - Page 23

original sin · 21 Dec 2003, 17:24

Quote:

Originally Posted by Eyeore The Badger

There is no life left. . .why?

Oh Dear Eyeore

There is so much life left - let me assure you.
You just need to make sure you are looking in the right place.
Some times we do need just to be happy with what we have rather than searching for the unattainable and being dissapointed.

There is life to be lived and fun to be had - go and garb it with two hands and don't let go.

Sinxx

Bren · 21 Dec 2003, 17:59

Quote:

Originally Posted by Eyeore The Badger

There is no life left. . .why?

Eyeore my friend, what is wrong, that you should feel this way?
You know you have many friends here, who all love and care about you.

Bren

Rob The Badger · 24 Dec 2003, 16:57

Everything's the same. . .and I'm going to spend Christnas alone. Literally. Merry f*cking Christmas, Rob.

dottie · 24 Dec 2003, 21:00

[quote="Rob The Badger"]Everything's the same. . .and I'm going to spend Christnas alone. quote]

You have a voice Rob, You have a pen, You have the ability - use it :)

Your never truly alone - look around you - we're all here for you :)

A lot can happen in a year, just remember that - I know personally my year changed completely - just have a dream and smile :)

original sin · 24 Dec 2003, 23:08

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rob The Badger

Everything's the same. . .and I'm going to spend Christnas alone. Literally. Merry f*cking Christmas, Rob.

Check you PM's

Rob The Badger · 24 Dec 2003, 23:27

You people are truly great. . .love you all.

shadow1000001 · 25 Dec 2003, 01:46

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rob The Badger

You people are truly great. . .love you all.

We love you too

RSG · 04 Jan 2004, 04:09

Dear Aunty Sin,

Today is Saturday, and I go back to school Monday. I was going to join choir on Monday, because I love to sing, and this is a great opportunity for me. But the thing is I am very nervous.

What my friend might think, cause he thinks choir is, well not for guys. Although I don't believe that, I feel right nervous about performing in front of people, even though my whole life evolves around the big stage. Do you know anything I could do to feel less nervous? Bye for now :)

**The Flying Mouse** · 04 Jan 2004, 05:22

RSG.
Go for it

.
My favorite piece of advice (which just happens to come from Meat

) is don't think.DO.It's a very simple thing, but it's certainly worked for me

.
Luckily, I don't suffer from stage fright.I do get nervous before I go on sometimes, but I always feel better when i'm performing

.
Don't worry about what your friend says.Being in a choir doesn't change who you are.If he is really your friend he will suport you.Don't let other people tell you what you can and can't do.Even dying a death on stage is a valuable learning experience (and will provide you with some great stories to tell the interviewers one day when your rich and famous

).
Enjoy yourself and don't forget to tell us all how you get on

.

DON'T THINK.DO

Bren · 04 Jan 2004, 11:29

RSG,
Mouse is right,...just do it.Be Yourself, do what you want, what is right for you, do not worry what other people think or say.
If it's something you enjoy and want to do, then do it

good luck with it
Bren

original sin · 05 Jan 2004, 00:03

Quote:

Originally Posted by RSG

Dear Aunty Sin,

Today is Saturday, and I go back to school Monday. I was going to join choir on Monday, because I love to sing, and this is a great opportunity for me. But the thing is I am very nervous.

What my friend might think, cause he thinks choir is, well not for guys. Although I don't believe that, I feel right nervous about performing in front of people, even though my whole life evolves around the big stage. Do you know anything I could do to feel less nervous? Bye for now :)

RSG

Do what you feel is right - no matter what others think.
Life seems like a long road - but it is actually very short.
If we don't try something out we will never now and the worst thing to live with is regrets.

Go for it

Sin xx

BTW great to see the group therapy working well in 2004

Lauren · 05 Jan 2004, 00:24

RSG
you should never base your actions solely on what others will think. If it feels right for you, trust your instincts, go with it - if you don't you'll always regret it and think 'well what if i had...' As for the nerves, when i was doing a gig i'd just keep thinking to myself 'it'll all be over in an hour' (or whatever), guaranteed once i was on stage i never wanted to come off - the buzz far outweighs the nerves
lauren xx

RSG · 05 Jan 2004, 04:40

Thank You's people for your support, I love that line,

"Don't think, DO!" Thank's again guys, I think I'm going to go down my room and play "Do It!" two or three times, because that song really motivates me into things. Especially the first verse, "stake your fakin' put your reputation to it!"

Tim · 13 Jan 2004, 19:49

Hello aunty sin,

I've got a problem...

Why is it that every time i manage to solve a problem, another one is coming fast into my live. I mean... i've got enough problems as it is right now... and i only can handle 1 problem at the time.
It is not that i'm weak or a nerd or something like that.... i just can't manage it all.

And i know that you are gonna advise... Tim, take 1 problem at the time... but that ain't working anymore... it looks like i'm cursed!!

Maybe it is just me... and the way i'm behaving. Maybe i'm the person who attracks problems by the way i act or behave, and in my opinion i'm not behaving strange or bad, and i know a lot of other people are also thinking that way. Maybe i act / behave a bit different due to the problems.... Pff....

And maybe the strangest thing is that i put it here on the forum... well, with this message...

The misserable butcher.

Bren · 13 Jan 2004, 21:30

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tim

Why is it that every time i manage to solve a problem, another one is coming fast into my live. I mean... i've got enough problems as it is right now... and i only can handle 1 problem at the time.
It is not that i'm weak or a nerd or something like that.... i just can't manage it all.

And i know that you are gonna advise... Tim, take 1 problem at the time... but that ain't working anymore... it looks like i'm cursed!!

Maybe it is just me... and the way i'm behaving. Maybe i'm the person who attracks problems by the way i act or behave, and in my opinion i'm not behaving strange or bad, and i know a lot of other people are also thinking that way. Maybe i act / behave a bit different due to the problems.... Pff..

And maybe the strangest thing is that i put it here on the forum... well, with this message...

The misserable butcher.

Dear Tim,
i'm not Aunty Sin, but i wanted to reply.......

I am sorry that things are not going well at the moment, and that you have so much to deal with.
Problems are a part of life, and unfortunately rarely come along one at a time
Do not blame yourself Tim...never do that don't think that it is your fault and that you "attract problems" by the way you act and behave.....just not true!!
I think we all feel that way at times, when swamped by too many problems, it's instinctive to think it must somehow be your fault.....but it's not believe me.
i'm here if you want to talk....
take care
Bren

original sin · 14 Jan 2004, 22:44

Tim
Sorry it’s taken me so long, been rather busy.

I see Bren’s looking out for you and please listen to her sensible words.
I will start with your last line first. By posting here it shows you have friends you trust and however bad life gets it’s good to be able to share with friends even if it can’t change things.
Some people seem to sail through life on calm waters, but not many. Life I’m afraid has many up’s and downs and problems never seem to come alone.
You are quite right we can only deal with one thing at a time, so when we have too much to deal with we have to put them in order and sort out what we can do now and what we can leave until later
Also you need to remember that we cannot solve every problem and when you realise this you will know what to leave alone, so you don’t waste your energy on what you cannot change.
I don’t think it is about you personally how you act or behave, a lot of people have similar thoughts and experiences but either do not acknowledge them or are not brave enough to face up to them.
Maybe you need a break. Is this possible try to leave everything, even if its for a day just to treat yourself, build up your mental and physical reserves and then see how everything looks.

But never ever forget, you have a bunch of friends here with a shoulder and an ear.

DIZZY DRUMMER · 17 Jan 2004, 19:59

Sin

How ya doing

I have a problem with the extra smilies and how to use them

I know you do too

THE FLYING MOUSE posted a reply on how to use them (great I thought)

- I tried it - yes u guest it - nothing

can we start a self help group for the thick ones amoung us

thank you for listening

**The Flying Mouse** · 17 Jan 2004, 20:21

I'll try and explain it again

If you want to copy this smilie

Quote THIS post.

Where the smilie is positioned on my post you will see this text (I have to post this with gaps or the smilie will apear instead of the text

) [ i m g ] h t t p : / / w w w .g i f s - p a r a d i e s . d e / s m i l i e s / 0 0 0 0 0 4 4 4 . g i f [ / i m g ]

Copy the text down.

When you want to use the smilie in your post type in the text without any gaps and the smilie will appear.

So any time you see a smilie on these forums do the same thing.
Quote, write down the text, type the text on your reply.

I hope i've explained it better this time

.

original sin · 17 Jan 2004, 22:06

like this?

Now here we have a dilema because Aunty Sin has absolutely no idea how to find these or use them - so yes Fallen Angel - i think a self help group may well be be a very good idea

Please don't think you are alone because i really haven't got a clue

note I've had to edit to try to do it

black dog · 18 Jan 2004, 00:22

Quote:

Originally Posted by original sin

like this?

Now here we have a dilema because Aunty Sin has absolutely no idea how to find these or use them - so yes Fallen Angel - i think a self help group may well be be a very good idea

Please don't think you are alone because i really haven't got a clue

note I've had to edit to try to do it

I think you may end up with a problem Aunty Sin if you keep drinking like this

Mind you I might join in.

Thanks for the help I'm so pleased I've managed to do that.

DIZZY DRUMMER · 18 Jan 2004, 02:25

DIZZY DRUMMER · 18 Jan 2004, 02:27

f**cking hell still don't work

someone hand me a rope

**The Flying Mouse** · 18 Jan 2004, 02:39

OK.I'll try again.

Click qoute on the post that contains the smilie.

When you click the quote button, you get a text block with a copy of the post you are quoting already written on it.Right?

Where the smilie appears on my post you will see the text [img etc etc.

Write the passage of text onto a piece of paper.

Do not post.Make your way back to the thread.

Post a new reply and you will get a brand new text box.

Type in the text that you have just written down on the paper.

Pray.

The smilie will apear.

shadow1000001 · 18 Jan 2004, 07:21

Mind if I join you

DIZZY DRUMMER · 18 Jan 2004, 10:03

Quote:

"original sin"

24 Dec 2003, 16:57	#553
Rob The Badger Too sexy for this post Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Manchester, UK Posts: 2,895	Everything's the same. . .and I'm going to spend Christnas alone. Literally. Merry f*cking Christmas, Rob.

24 Dec 2003, 21:00	#554
dottie queen post- whore extraordinaire Join Date: 29.01.2003 Location: Still Rockin' at "72" Posts: 13,181	[quote="Rob The Badger"]Everything's the same. . .and I'm going to spend Christnas alone. quote] You have a voice Rob, You have a pen, You have the ability - use it :) Your never truly alone - look around you - we're all here for you :) A lot can happen in a year, just remember that - I know personally my year changed completely - just have a dream and smile :)

24 Dec 2003, 23:27	#556
Rob The Badger Too sexy for this post Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Manchester, UK Posts: 2,895	You people are truly great. . .love you all.

04 Jan 2004, 04:09	#558
RSG Mega Loafer Join Date: 27.07.2003 Location: Canada Posts: 3,296	Dear Aunty Sin, Today is Saturday, and I go back to school Monday. I was going to join choir on Monday, because I love to sing, and this is a great opportunity for me. But the thing is I am very nervous. What my friend might think, cause he thinks choir is, well not for guys. Although I don't believe that, I feel right nervous about performing in front of people, even though my whole life evolves around the big stage. Do you know anything I could do to feel less nervous? Bye for now :)

04 Jan 2004, 05:22	#559
The Flying Mouse Armed ba$tard and Jo's other half. Join Date: 06.08.2002 Location: In the middle of nowhere near the end of the line. Posts: 16,104	RSG. Go for it . My favorite piece of advice (which just happens to come from Meat ) is don't think.DO.It's a very simple thing, but it's certainly worked for me . Luckily, I don't suffer from stage fright.I do get nervous before I go on sometimes, but I always feel better when i'm performing . Don't worry about what your friend says.Being in a choir doesn't change who you are.If he is really your friend he will suport you.Don't let other people tell you what you can and can't do.Even dying a death on stage is a valuable learning experience (and will provide you with some great stories to tell the interviewers one day when your rich and famous ). Enjoy yourself and don't forget to tell us all how you get on . DON'T THINK.DO

04 Jan 2004, 11:29	#560
Bren The Bat Join Date: 23.03.2003 Location: Roosting on a Silver-Black Phantom Bike. Posts: 10,017	RSG, Mouse is right,...just do it.Be Yourself, do what you want, what is right for you, do not worry what other people think or say. If it's something you enjoy and want to do, then do it good luck with it Bren

05 Jan 2004, 00:24	#562
Lauren Super Loafer Join Date: 19.11.2003 Location: Rotherham, UK Posts: 224	RSG you should never base your actions solely on what others will think. If it feels right for you, trust your instincts, go with it - if you don't you'll always regret it and think 'well what if i had...' As for the nerves, when i was doing a gig i'd just keep thinking to myself 'it'll all be over in an hour' (or whatever), guaranteed once i was on stage i never wanted to come off - the buzz far outweighs the nerves lauren xx

05 Jan 2004, 04:40	#563
RSG Mega Loafer Join Date: 27.07.2003 Location: Canada Posts: 3,296	Thank You's people for your support, I love that line, "Don't think, DO!" Thank's again guys, I think I'm going to go down my room and play "Do It!" two or three times, because that song really motivates me into things. Especially the first verse, "stake your fakin' put your reputation to it!"

13 Jan 2004, 19:49	#564
Tim The Butcher Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Westervoort, The Netherlands Posts: 10,321	Hello aunty sin, I've got a problem... Why is it that every time i manage to solve a problem, another one is coming fast into my live. I mean... i've got enough problems as it is right now... and i only can handle 1 problem at the time. It is not that i'm weak or a nerd or something like that.... i just can't manage it all. And i know that you are gonna advise... Tim, take 1 problem at the time... but that ain't working anymore... it looks like i'm cursed!! Maybe it is just me... and the way i'm behaving. Maybe i'm the person who attracks problems by the way i act or behave, and in my opinion i'm not behaving strange or bad, and i know a lot of other people are also thinking that way. Maybe i act / behave a bit different due to the problems.... Pff.... And maybe the strangest thing is that i put it here on the forum... well, with this message... The misserable butcher.

14 Jan 2004, 22:44	#566
original sin Sinner Join Date: 15.04.2003 Location: cyber space Posts: 2,457	Tim Sorry it’s taken me so long, been rather busy. I see Bren’s looking out for you and please listen to her sensible words. I will start with your last line first. By posting here it shows you have friends you trust and however bad life gets it’s good to be able to share with friends even if it can’t change things. Some people seem to sail through life on calm waters, but not many. Life I’m afraid has many up’s and downs and problems never seem to come alone. You are quite right we can only deal with one thing at a time, so when we have too much to deal with we have to put them in order and sort out what we can do now and what we can leave until later Also you need to remember that we cannot solve every problem and when you realise this you will know what to leave alone, so you don’t waste your energy on what you cannot change. I don’t think it is about you personally how you act or behave, a lot of people have similar thoughts and experiences but either do not acknowledge them or are not brave enough to face up to them. Maybe you need a break. Is this possible try to leave everything, even if its for a day just to treat yourself, build up your mental and physical reserves and then see how everything looks. But never ever forget, you have a bunch of friends here with a shoulder and an ear.

17 Jan 2004, 19:59	#567
DIZZY DRUMMER Always Ready For A Bang Join Date: 30.11.2003 Location: Left In The Dark .......... AGAIN Posts: 6,389	Sin How ya doing I have a problem with the extra smilies and how to use them I know you do too THE FLYING MOUSE posted a reply on how to use them (great I thought) - I tried it - yes u guest it - nothing can we start a self help group for the thick ones amoung us thank you for listening

17 Jan 2004, 20:21	#568
The Flying Mouse Armed ba$tard and Jo's other half. Join Date: 06.08.2002 Location: In the middle of nowhere near the end of the line. Posts: 16,104	I'll try and explain it again If you want to copy this smilie Quote THIS post. Where the smilie is positioned on my post you will see this text (I have to post this with gaps or the smilie will apear instead of the text ) [ i m g ] h t t p : / / w w w .g i f s - p a r a d i e s . d e / s m i l i e s / 0 0 0 0 0 4 4 4 . g i f [ / i m g ] Copy the text down. When you want to use the smilie in your post type in the text without any gaps and the smilie will appear. So any time you see a smilie on these forums do the same thing. Quote, write down the text, type the text on your reply. I hope i've explained it better this time .

17 Jan 2004, 22:06	#569
original sin Sinner Join Date: 15.04.2003 Location: cyber space Posts: 2,457	like this? Now here we have a dilema because Aunty Sin has absolutely no idea how to find these or use them - so yes Fallen Angel - i think a self help group may well be be a very good idea Please don't think you are alone because i really haven't got a clue note I've had to edit to try to do it

18 Jan 2004, 02:25	#571
DIZZY DRUMMER Always Ready For A Bang Join Date: 30.11.2003 Location: Left In The Dark .......... AGAIN Posts: 6,389

18 Jan 2004, 02:27	#572
DIZZY DRUMMER Always Ready For A Bang Join Date: 30.11.2003 Location: Left In The Dark .......... AGAIN Posts: 6,389	f**cking hell still don't work someone hand me a rope

18 Jan 2004, 02:39	#573
The Flying Mouse Armed ba$tard and Jo's other half. Join Date: 06.08.2002 Location: In the middle of nowhere near the end of the line. Posts: 16,104	OK.I'll try again. Click qoute on the post that contains the smilie. When you click the quote button, you get a text block with a copy of the post you are quoting already written on it.Right? Where the smilie appears on my post you will see the text [img etc etc. Write the passage of text onto a piece of paper. Do not post.Make your way back to the thread. Post a new reply and you will get a brand new text box. Type in the text that you have just written down on the paper. Pray. The smilie will apear.

18 Jan 2004, 07:21	#574
shadow1000001 Mega Loafer Join Date: 10.07.2003 Location: Red Deer, Alberta, Canada Posts: 2,580	Mind if I join you