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Old 11 Jul 2009, 03:19   #1
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I'm gonna say goodbye, I've been thinking about this for a while so believe me that this is not a spur of the moment thing, some of you will probably say so what the ~~~~ but to be true to myself and what I believe in I feel that this has to be done. A forum that has given me so much has degenerated into a free for all with no regard for common decency and morality. I met my partner on this forum and Jasmine would not be here if it was not for the MLUKFC but I do not want to be known as someone that condones the use of the words retard and ~~~~~~ (if you say nothing about it you may as well say it).
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Old 11 Jul 2009, 03:38   #2
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I agree.

And feel the same way.
I cannot and will not allow myself to be part of something that discriminates people because of race, creed or colour. I was absolutely outraged when the use of '~~~~~~' and 'golly wog' was used in the terms they were used.
For a few days I have been thinking of finally breaking away from this forum and I think after what's gone on lately my decision is made.

Thanks for the memories and am grateful for the true friends that I have made via this site.

Adios
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Old 11 Jul 2009, 03:50   #3
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will be a SAD LOSS but you gotta do what you gotta do it should be the person/s that use this type of language that is made to leave or be made unable to post on this site
ferwell to those who choose to leave its been fun ............
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Old 11 Jul 2009, 11:17   #4
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It's a shame people if people leave for good because of racist jokes even if those happened by accident. I do firmly believe some people should go on a typing course before they are allowed to join a public forum or at least re-read the message before posting.

Why those posts were not deleted by a mod I don't know but I guess it was just missed as the rate of how much bullshit appeared in the MJ Rip thread was rather high.
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Old 11 Jul 2009, 12:38   #5
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I can understand why you want to go, I'm sorry that you are going and maybe all of this should make me think how much i should be posting here.

So maybe some action should be taken..the fun has definitely gone downhill recently here...
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Old 11 Jul 2009, 17:50   #6
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I'm gonna say goodbye, I've been thinking about this for a while so believe me that this is not a spur of the moment thing, some of you will probably say so what the ~~~~ but to be true to myself and what I believe in I feel that this has to be done. A forum that has given me so much has degenerated into a free for all with no regard for common decency and morality. I met my partner on this forum and Jasmine would not be here if it was not for the MLUKFC but I do not want to be known as someone that condones the use of the words retard and ~~~~~~ (if you say nothing about it you may as well say it).
Sadly, I can see where you are coming from.

And even more sadly, it clearly shows that even a small forum like this can't live without strict moderation. We have tried to reduce moderating to a minimum, which obviously doesn't work given the recent complaints. Looks like we have to change this, which means more deleted posts, more locked threads and more infraction points.

Anyway - M, thanks for all the fish and being our guest for roughly 4 years. Don't hesitate to reconsider though.

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Why those posts were not deleted by a mod I don't know but I guess it was just missed as the rate of how much bullshit appeared in the MJ Rip thread was rather high.
You may have noticed that I wasn't around that much in the last half year. Some things from the real life out there finally catched up to me. And these things still need my attention and reduce the time I can devote to this site. And I'm not talking about the bloody English car here.

For the record - according to our rules, the posts mentioned above have been rewarded with an expensive infraction. I'll clean this thread now.
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Old 11 Jul 2009, 18:02   #7
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I missed the racist remarks first time round because of the amount of nonsense, me asking to please close the MJ RIP thread was actually more because it had been off topic so much and also I posted some stuff I can see was wrong now. But if had seen the racist remarks at the time there would have been even more trouble no doubt, I'm glad there wasn't! I can easily see the few mods we have missing the few original posts about this too but it does baffle me if some individuals think it is completely normal to post like that and not apologise to anyone at all. Ridiculous imo. But will I let people like that push me away from this board, no ~~~~ing way.
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Old 11 Jul 2009, 18:16   #8
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I can completely understand why anyone would to leave this board considering the bull racial slurs. But I am not going anywhere.
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Old 11 Jul 2009, 19:51   #9
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I can completely understand why anyone would to leave this board considering the bull racial slurs. But I am not going anywhere.
good descision
I respect Michael's and Emma's descision, but for me this forum has been an important part of my life, as well, and I'm not giving up on it that easily.
Glad I'm not the only one!
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Old 11 Jul 2009, 20:08   #10
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its a shame but i can understand why i've missed some things on here as i haven't really been on here as much, i can't see why people have to go and say things like that on here if people on here know the rules then why do they go break them its pethetic really, i think some people should really grow up and think before they say things. you will be sadly missed on here michael.
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Old 11 Jul 2009, 22:41   #11
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Default FINAL CURTAIN CALL GOT TO THE END OF THE SCENE!!!

WELL I THOUGHT I'D BETTER POST THIS AS PEOPLE ARE THINKING I'M A RACIST.. AND IM CERTAINLY, CERTAINLY NOT!!!

THE N WORD SHOULD HAVE SPELT BIGGER BUT AS I WAS TIRED IT GOT MIS SHREWD, AND THEN MONSTRO POSTED SOMETHING ABOUT THE WORD AND I USED A REPHRASE AS I DIDNT KNOW WHAT HE WAS ON ABOUT, UNTIL I TURNED ON MY COMPUTER THE NEXT MORNING!!!! YOU CAN BELIEVE WHAT YOU WANT, I DO APOLOGISE FOR MY MISTAKE OF THEM WORDS THAT I SPELT INCORRECTLY...

OK, PEOPLE CAN SAY GROW UP, WHAT THE HELL DO YOU KNOW ABOUT ME, HAVE YOU EVER MET ME!!!

FOR THE ONES WHO HAVE YOU'LL KNOW I'M A HAPPY PERSON AND ALWAYS POLITE AND GOT SOMETHING TO SAY.

NOW I STILL STICK TO MY ORIGINAL COMMENTS (WITHOUT THE MISTAKES I MADE)... IT'S NOT MY FAULT THAT A CERTAIN PERSON GETS UPSET AT THE SLIGHTEST THING... THIS PERSON SHOULD STOP BEING SO ANNOYING TO EVERYONE, AND UNDERSTAND OTHER PEOPLE HAVE THEIR VIEWS... DONT RUN AND SCUTTLE OFF AND TELL THE TEACHER, AND JUST THINK I DONT AGREE WITH IT, BUT RESPECT THAT YOU HAVE THAT VIEW... ANYWAY... I WILL BE I TOUCH WITH MONSTRO TO APOLOGISE!!!

ANYWAY YOU PEOPLE WHO DON'T KNOW ME OR KNOW ME, THIS SITE HAS BEEN THE BEST TO ME OVER THE YEARS... I'VE MET SOME GREAT PEOPLE, HAD DEBATES AND STUFF BUT OVER THE LAST YEAR OR SO I'VE REALLY LOST INTEREST IN MEAT LOAF (I CANT EXPLAIN WHY AS BEEN A FAN FOR TWENTY FIVE YEARS).. i'VE EVEN SOLD HALF MY STUFF ON EBAY AND MY MUMS REALLY SHOCKED AS TO WHY SOLD MY STUFF AND MANDY IS SHOCKED AS WELL WHY I VERY PLAY HIS SONGS..

FOR ME WRITING THIS IS THE HARDEST THING I'LL EVER WRITE THIS YEAR, AND REALLY BRINGS A TEAR TO MY EYE CAUSE ITS AN END OF A CHAPTER IN THE BATCITY 1 SAGA... BUT I GOT SO MUCH TO LOOK FORWARD TO AT THE MOMENT.... I'M GONNA BECOME A DAD ON AUG 12 AND HAVE RESPONSILBILITIES COMING WAY, YOU KNOW, AND I KNOW I'LL RAISE MY KID LIKE MY DAD RAISED MY, TEACHING ME TO RIDE A BIKE ETC... I JUST CANT WAIT FOR THAT!!! I'M TRULY READY TO EMBRACE IT

i GOT FACEBOOK YEAH, BUT THATS MINE TO CALL MINE BLOG WHERE I CAN EXPRESS MY VIEWS WITHOUT BEING INFRACTIONED!!!


ANYWAY I NOT LETTING ANYONE WIN!!! I JUST HAVE TO DRAW THE CURTAIN DOWN LIKE THE FAMOUS FINAL SCENE AND TAKE AN EXIT THRU THE CROWD OUT OF THE FRONT DOOR!!!

I WILL BE ASKING (ONE OF THE MODS TO DELETE MY ACCOUNT ON THIS SITE IN A FEW DAYS). JUST WANT TO LET YOU THINK WHAT I HAVE JUST SAID AND MAKE YOU'RE OWN JUDGEMENTS ON ME, PM ME IF NESS... BUT I WILL BE LEAVING!!!


BEST WISHES AND APOLOGISES

KEEP ROCKING

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Old 12 Jul 2009, 03:52   #12
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Oh,Michael,so sorry you are leaving,i have not been online for a while,but this forum is definately not the same anymore,you will be very much missed on here
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Old 12 Jul 2009, 23:42   #13
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You may have noticed that I wasn't around that much in the last half year. Some things from the real life out there finally catched up to me. And these things still need my attention and reduce the time I can devote to this site.
Don't you think it's time you got some better mods then? Aren't they suppose to make decisions when you're not around? AndyK is about the only decent one and the rest..well...chocolate teapot springs to mind.

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PEOPLE ARE THINKING I'M A RACIST.. AND IM CERTAINLY, CERTAINLY NOT!!!
I don't think you're a racist, I think you should apologise though for abuse of CAPSLOCK.
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Old 12 Jul 2009, 23:51   #14
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Don't you think it's time you got some better mods then? Aren't they suppose to make decisions when you're not around? AndyK is about the only decent one and the rest..well...chocolate teapot springs to mind.



I don't think you're a racist, I think you should apologise though for abuse of CAPSLOCK.

much respect to ya
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Old 13 Jul 2009, 17:44   #15
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im glad that you have done the honourable thing and chosen to leave. it might have been possible to call error on using the n word when attempting to say bigger or somthing similar, but you went on to argue that you had meant to use that word and reinforced it by using another with the same negative connatations.

Also as someone who works with and has many friends who have learning difficulties im getting really angered by the amount the word retard is being used on this site.
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Old 13 Jul 2009, 23:36   #16
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This is not the topic to go off on a rant about who is and isn't racist, nor what sense the word retard was used in.

M has decided he is leaving the forum and personally i would like to see this thread to talk about that and to keep private messages what they are meant to be, private.

If someone wants to start off a thread of Does racism exist on MLUKFC, maybe they should go there, but I don't particularly want to read a "fare thee well Batcity, we hardly knew you" because that's what it seems you're waiting around for.
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Old 13 Jul 2009, 23:46   #17
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This is not the topic to go off on a rant about who is and isn't racist, nor what sense the word retard was used in.

M has decided he is leaving the forum and personally i would like to see this thread to talk about that and to keep private messages what they are meant to be, private.

If someone wants to start off a thread of Does racism exist on MLUKFC, maybe they should go there, but I don't particularly want to read a "fare thee well Batcity, we hardly knew you" because that's what it seems you're waiting around for.
This. 17 posts removed.
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Old 13 Jul 2009, 23:57   #18
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Cya Monstro (Michale). I'll miss the way you always messed with me .

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Which one, if given the post I'd voted them for, would remove your internet access?
To Starting a Poll on my Birthday XD

good times good times....

I'll admit I've been a little on the goofy/stupid side lately (like in the shoutbox)

so I'm sorry if anything i've said drove ya away

Peice man. this is technically a RIP: Michale Thread. Just your not Jackson. And your not dead.

PS: Should we get rid of the smile
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Old 14 Jul 2009, 00:22   #19
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This is not the topic to go off on a rant about who is and isn't racist, nor what sense the word retard was used in.
i did not "go of on a rant" i just was stating that he had made the right desision and that there were major flaws in his defence.
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Old 14 Jul 2009, 17:29   #20
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I am just happy he has posted "Later all" and not good bye...that gives me hope...I miss Michael...
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Old 14 Jul 2009, 18:16   #21
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I am just happy he has posted "Later all" and not good bye...that gives me hope...I miss Michael...
Me too ... place seems kind of empty now...
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Old 17 Jul 2009, 12:15   #22
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I'm sorry to say I completely agree with Michael, and that's without even seeing the racist/offensive remarks that he's referring to.

This place really isn't what it used to be. I - and others I could mention - used to enjoy the forum as a place to chat, and to have fun, and to look forward to seeing Meat and meeting up with each other again, but over recent years it's decended into a mess of persistant bitching, moaning and nastiness (most of the time for no reason other than to be argumentitive and cause chaos) and frankly I have no time for it. Surely people must notice the amount of members that don't post here anymore?! For those that do still have an interest in posting I'm just glad for you that Rainer and Andy are able to keep some level of sanity around here.

I'm extremely sad that as one of the early members of MLUKFC I have no interest in the place anymore. I joined the paid fanclub aged 12 and have grown up with a whole other little MLUKFC family around me, but I have no time or energy for the attitudes of many people here now and I won't be part of it.
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Old 17 Jul 2009, 15:09   #23
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(most of the time for no reason other than to be argumentitive and cause chaos)

i think that's a very big part of the problem, and I must admit sometimes I've made myself guilty of that as well. It's a small line between having fun and moaning a bit, and being self righteous and completely cynic without any reason.
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Old 19 Jul 2009, 13:05   #24
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This place has been degenerating for a few years and i hate the fact that this thread seems to imply that things have gone bad recently or because of two people, markham and i dont agree and havent before on race issue but my beliefs are my own, and if he had posted something i didnt like, i sure as hell know where the report button on that post is. Like some others who have left i have seen way too many good friends leave here because of the way this site has gone, nobody remembers them because they didnt do a thread but they left nonetheless and i miss them, it seems almost all the regular posters when i joined have left for much the same reason.
R has a great site here and i'm sorry it's not the place it used to be, i always saw this as THE place to be for a ML fan, hell i even brought a few new members here, but even they have left.

So imo Markham acted like an arse and used language that in my own personal opinion is not appropriate, but there are many other people on here that make this site uncomfortable to visit too.

This is my first post for quite some time and i realise it will probably be overlooked as crap, but i am getting more frustrated each time i read posts that have come from this whole situation.

Congratulations to Mike, i think you will be a good mod, to my knowledge you have been straight down the middle with most situations in the past, i hope you can keep that up as a mod.

Congratulations also Rj, you got your title of argumentative little ******* from me but i am glad to see that has now been removed and i hope to see you show the naysayers (including me, i have to be honest) wrong.

Good luck both of you, you will need it :)
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Old 19 Jul 2009, 23:08   #25
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To be frank, I think what needs to be said has been said many times and this topic doesn't need to be dragged up every other day as it'll just stir ill-feeling for some.
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