15 Apr 2012, 12:07 | #51 | |
Mega Loafer
Join Date: 22.10.2006
Location: Hemel Hempstead, UK
Posts: 1,671
|
Quote:
I agree that there are some people here that shouldn't be, and we would love to get rid of them believe you me. But please, please stick around for the vast majority of us who love and support you. |
|
1 User Likes This Post. |
15 Apr 2012, 12:45 | #52 | |
Long Distance Loafer
Join Date: 17.07.2007
Location: Perth, Australia
Posts: 4,586
|
Quote:
|
|
15 Apr 2012, 13:20 | #53 |
Super Loafer
Join Date: 27.04.2011
Location: Vlimmeren , Belgium
Posts: 212
|
**hugs** Please stick around here... There are many people here who love you and write positive comments. Pay attention to them and ignore the few dumb ones here who are too stupid to say ever something good.
Love ya. XXX |
15 Apr 2012, 14:52 | #54 | ||||||||||||||
Guest
Join Date: 19.04.2003
Posts: 2,238
|
Hi Meat,
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
But you said "We got here because people stopped caring about other people and only care about their beliefs and what they want." In light of that statement, I believe that this prayer banner thing is a bad example: Jessica Ahlquist stood up for what she believed in, the constitution, and was responsible for herself and other people. The schoolboard didn't care that she and others felt "excluded, ostracized and devalued." They just wanted to keep a statement of their beliefs up there. They even went to court over it. I don't get how she's what's wrong with the world. Also, I tried my best to keep this out of the whole thing, since it seems kind of pedantic, but well, it was a girl and her father. While, indeed, that's nitpicking, it's still wrong. Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
No, I am not. As I have said in several posts in this discussion that I believe the Wikipedia article to be a accurate, succinct summary of the many articles I've read on the case. In fact, I've also replied to exactly the same criticism that everybody should feel free to peruse the cited references at their leisure. And then, I also linked directly to in the court's decision. So, please, gimme a break. Quote:
On a final note: I guess this all boils down to how you look at things. As an atheist, I think that freedom of church and state is a right that's worth defending. I'm perfectly fine with anybody believing and worshipping whatever they want, as long as they respect my right not to. For me, freedom of religion should also include freedom from religion. I don't see a war on religion, I see misplaced outrage over religious privileges being challenged. I see people sending sixteen year-old girls sending death threats because she stood up for what she believed in, and it just happened to go against what they believed in. Meat, I don't think we're going to agree on this matter, but just as you're free to assert that Jessica Ahlquist, her father and the judge got it wrong and should be doing something more constructive, so am I free to believe you're barking up the wrong tree here. (And that's probably not going to earn me a lot of likes, but so be it.) |
||||||||||||||
1 User Dislikes This Post. |
3 Users Like This Post. |
15 Apr 2012, 14:55 | #55 | |
Mega Loafer
Join Date: 09.02.2010
Location:
Posts: 1,934
|
Quote:
I understand that negativity hurts and it's hard to ignore sometimes but there's a lot of messages that are very positive and supportive. |
|
1 User Likes This Post. |
15 Apr 2012, 14:58 | #56 |
Guest
Join Date: 19.04.2003
Posts: 2,238
|
|
15 Apr 2012, 15:01 | #57 | |
Guest
Join Date: 19.04.2003
Posts: 2,238
|
Quote:
|
|
15 Apr 2012, 15:25 | #58 | |
Mega Loafer
Join Date: 16.04.2003
Location: Sheffield UK
Posts: 5,910
|
Getting back ...
Quote:
Freedom to practise what one believes, just as the much quoted freedom to express an opinion are both worthy ideals in a democracy, but not easy to uphold. To insist on the removal of something which does not incite hatred to anyone, but is simply intended to inspire some to positive effort was not in my view the way to uphold freedom, simply because a wholly positive message was prefaced with 3 words "Our Heavenly Father". To me to insist on its removal does impinge on the freedom of those who believe in God. But I would have no quarrel with similar prayers being also posted on the wall which were addressed to Allah, or appealed to any other belief, including one which was an exhortation to try ones best because one was human, had no belief in an afterlife or presence that watches over us, so it was important to make the best of each day one had on earth, because we each have a lifespan and it's important to make the best of it because it won't come again. To me that would uphold everyone's freedom to practise whatever belief they hold. Seeking to prevent this would be a breach of rights imo Caryl Last edited by CarylB; 15 Apr 2012 at 16:09. |
|
1 User Likes This Post. |
15 Apr 2012, 15:30 | #59 |
Long Distance Loafer
Join Date: 17.07.2007
Location: Perth, Australia
Posts: 4,586
|
Because Wikepedia is about as reliable as... well, a Land Rover Discovery.... well at least the one that we used to have at my work anyway, that thing was crap.
|
15 Apr 2012, 15:32 | #60 | |
Mega Loafer
Join Date: 16.04.2003
Location: Sheffield UK
Posts: 5,910
|
Quote:
I believe Meat is correct. The colonisation of America was based on a desire to practise religion without hindrance, it is embedded in the roots of its constitutional history. Every dollar bill has In God We Trust. Some things will endure in my view. Caryl |
|
1 User Likes This Post. |
15 Apr 2012, 15:58 | #61 | |
Super Loafer
Join Date: 10.02.2006
Location: Southampton, UK
Posts: 662
|
Quote:
|
|
1 User Likes This Post. |
15 Apr 2012, 16:41 | #62 | |
Guest
Join Date: 19.04.2003
Posts: 2,238
|
Quote:
Yet, you liked the whole post. Which goes to show that the "like" button does not really help clear communication. |
|
15 Apr 2012, 17:02 | #63 | ||
Mega Loafer
Join Date: 16.04.2003
Location: Sheffield UK
Posts: 5,910
|
Quote:
Quote:
My reaction you may recall re Wiki was the same. You have since pointed out you have done much research. However, I still think Meat probably understands more about the US constitution than you do. That's what I think .. so I agree with the post I liked. Caryl |
||
1 User Likes This Post. |
15 Apr 2012, 17:08 | #64 | |
Senior Loafer
Join Date: 26.02.2012
Location: Northampton, UK
Posts: 126
|
Quote:
Well said! I have tried not to get sucked into anything 'argumentative' which has happened in this forum (being only a baby poster), but have never seen anything like it before on any fan pages. But goodness, one man's words have been taken way, way, way out of context and scrutinised far too much. Can we just get the thread back on track and just enjoy our favourite music together and be chuffed that he wants to actually communicate with his fans? There are so many more artists that do not bother! |
|
15 Apr 2012, 17:41 | #65 | ||
Mega Loafer
Join Date: 09.05.2008
Posts: 3,562
|
Quote:
Quote:
It's probably a very stupid, naive question to ask but can't we all just try to get along, in spite of having different opinions and different ways of expressing them? After all we're adult, reasonable people. (At least I hope so.) * religious reference |
||
5 Users Like This Post. |
15 Apr 2012, 17:52 | #66 | ||||||
Mega Loafer
Join Date: 09.05.2008
Posts: 3,562
|
Quote:
Quote:
In America, too? Before Columbus? I agree that Christianity has significantly influenced our culture over the centuries, regarding everything else I rather agree with evil nickname. Quote:
Quote:
Removing a prayer from a school wall does not keep people from excercising their religion. They can still believe in whatever they want, they can pray, go to church, etc. If I want to be religious and believe in something, I can do so without a prayer hanging on a wall in a building that wasn't built to represent my religion. Unless it's a religious school, there shouldn't be prayers on display. As far as I understood, Ms. Ahlquist did not attack Christians or Christianity, the case just raises the question in which places religion should be present and if/where people who have another or no religion should be confronted with it that way. Are you "compassionate" enough not only to understand the feelings of those who wanted to keep the prayer but also the motivation of those who had an issue with it? Quote:
It's odd that some people who claim to be in favor of that prayer actually act against to what that prayer says. I wonder if they actually read and understood it. You say "we have lost our humanity and compassion". Is sending people hatemail "humane" or "compassionate"? What's worse? Requesting the removal of a prayer and maybe hurt people's (religious) feelings or threaten to actually hurt or kill someone? If people have an issue with what the girl did, fine, but there are more decent and appropriate ways to express discontent. The way some people reacted just led to another silly Christians vs. atheists fight. That's one of the things I'd pick as an example for "the world going to hell in a handbasket": The inability of people to solve conflicts in a civilized manner, the tendency to hate each other for secondary, minor reasons. Quote:
So, aside from the girl from Rhode Island that bothers you that much, what else is it that's "wrong in the world", in your opinion? You focus on some argument over a prayer when explaining the album title. What about the very complex economic and social issues the world suffers from? The latter will affect our lives in the long run, the prayer argument probably won't. It's easy but unfortunately not very constructive to complain about what other people have allegedly done wrong. I'm more interested in what you think is the "right" thing to do. What's your idea of solving the world's problems, how would you make the world a better place? Just like to add one thing: I wonder why presumably reasonable people freak out when it comes to religion or politics and fight with people they could actually be good friends with if those two things wouldn't interfere. Last edited by Sarge; 15 Apr 2012 at 18:15. Reason: typo |
||||||
15 Apr 2012, 18:39 | #67 |
Mega Loafer
Join Date: 09.02.2010
Location:
Posts: 1,934
|
Very well said and a question I have been asking myself countless times during my life. I remember saying something to a girl I worked with once and that was that everyone has an opinion but differing opinions does not have to stop people being friends or at least getting along.
|
1 User Likes This Post. |
15 Apr 2012, 19:04 | #68 | |
trying to be realistic
Join Date: 28.09.2007
Location:
Posts: 1,958
|
Quote:
What Paul brought to this board was an insight on the production of a Meat Loaf album. Of course we love that! I saw questions in Paul's 'production' topic about if you were willing to do something similar. Like the Facebook/YouTube Q&A. As far as I can remember that only got positive vibes on this forum! People agree with and love you on most matters. On some matters they have different views or opinions. So what? Why fixate on what we don't agree on? Instead of fighting those opinions try to take a compliment from the board every now and then. I hardly see you reply to positive posts. Maybe you should do that a bit more and perhaps it gives you a better feeling coming here. |
|
15 Apr 2012, 19:25 | #69 | |
Guest
Join Date: 22.08.2010
Posts: 60
|
Quote:
Try to stay positive!!!!!! |
|
1 User Likes This Post. |
15 Apr 2012, 20:05 | #70 | |
Mega Loafer
Join Date: 22.10.2006
Location: Hemel Hempstead, UK
Posts: 1,671
|
Quote:
I really appreciate you saying we should all try to get along. I'm with you 100% on that. I just can't see it happening while some people are here. |
|
15 Apr 2012, 20:12 | #71 | |
Super Loafer
Join Date: 03.06.2011
Posts: 667
|
Quote:
I will also point out that the UK puts great men like Charles Darwin on their money. I'm surprised to have so many people on a UK forum NOT defending secular values. |
|
1 User Likes This Post. |
15 Apr 2012, 20:19 | #72 | |
Super Loafer
Join Date: 03.06.2011
Posts: 667
|
Quote:
Do you think that everyone is just gonna agree on everything? It's not gonna happen. Never. And why WOULD somebody want that? Sounds boring to me. Disagreements are not hate or negativity. People need to realize that and stop making leaps in judgement. Including Meat himself. I'm sure most people who are fans of his music, but disagree on some of his views are still fans of ML the person. He's not a bad person, just wrong (IMO) sometimes. |
|
1 User Likes This Post. |
15 Apr 2012, 20:38 | #73 | |
Mega Loafer
Join Date: 09.05.2008
Posts: 3,562
|
Quote:
Fans like their favorite artists for various reasons. We're all different from each other and have our own preferences, expectations and values. It's not unusual that there are different levels of admiration and different ways to show that admiration. P.S.: Let me also point to the fact that this is an international community. There are people whose mother tongue is not English which might lead to misunderstanding or posts appearing a tad too "blunt". Last edited by Sarge; 15 Apr 2012 at 20:47. |
|
5 Users Like This Post. |
15 Apr 2012, 21:02 | #74 | |
Mega Loafer
Join Date: 20.04.2003
Posts: 13,041
|
Quote:
S ... xo |
|
4 Users Like This Post. |
15 Apr 2012, 21:05 | #75 | |
Armed ba$tard and Jo's other half.
Join Date: 06.08.2002
Location: In the middle of nowhere near the end of the line.
Posts: 16,104
|
A lot of strong feeling about this
I feel (although I might be wrong) the problem Meat has with so much effort going into the removal of the prayer is not a religious issue, but one that there is a portion of society that really goes out of their way to upset other people. The prayer was on the wall for 50 years. Had it hurt anyone in 50 years? Was it due to hurt anyone in the next 50 years? So what was the big problem? It might have brought comfort to some people, so it did a little good in the world, but who the hell was it going to harm? If there were a lot more things that could do some good but no harm, we'd be living in a better world. If there was something in the prayer that insighted racial or religeous hatred toward others, I can see the point in wanting it taking down. But a message of reasurrance? Why couldn't the prayer be ignored by the people who didn't believe in it? Why is another persons views (in this case, religious beliefs) be such an affront to people with different views? (perhaps they are all forum users ) That's the message I got from Meat frustration, but again, maybe i'm wrong I myself am offended when things like Christmas are deemed politicaly incorrect. There have been plenty of reports in newspapers over the years over different places in England that have decided to ban a public Christmas tree in case it offends other religions or non believers. I do not feel intimidated by Chritianity, I don't feel my human rights violated, and have no problem with the national anthem being GOD Save The Queen. In fact I rather envy people who have stronger religious beliefs at times as I can imagine them to be of comfort at times. I'm not a particularly religious person, but Chritianity is the religion of my land, and I believe that those who wish to worship should be given that right. If other religions wish to practice in my country, all fair and good, but don't go saying that Christianity offends you. And you don't have to be a dyed in the wool God wholloper to think a tree with pretty lights on sort of brightens the place up a bit. (The fact that the "Christmas" tree was hijacked off the pagans and actually has ~~~~~~ all to do with the son of God is something I supports that viewpoint ) But is this the place to discuss this? Yes, and no. Yes, because it was said by Meat, and we are all fans of Meat and might have an opinion on what he has to say. Wether that be positive or negative. No, because it has nothing to do with his career. Ultimatly, if somebody well known takes a public stance on an issue it is more than likely that there will be people who agree and people who disagree, and as we all have a differnent compass governing our political/religious/social views, it's not to be too surprising when it's discovered that some of the people who disagree are within his own fan base. In fact, you can pretty much count on it. If a dude from Westlife says something about politics or religion it's not likely to interest me. From Meat I might take more interest. If you admire JFK, you probably admire him for his political views, but you might not like his art collection. If you admire The Pope it's probably because you think he's a righteous dude, but looking through his CD rack you might wonder "WTF is he thinking?" I think the people of this forum are here because they appreciate the artistic output of the artist Meat Loaf. Not because they hold the same religious/political beliefs, so when Meat says something publicly they don't agree with, it's bound to cause debate. So Meat doesn't respect the peoples efforts to have the prayer taken down, some people don't respect Meat's comments on the issue, other people don't respect their disagreement with Meat, and so the world keeps going around and around. I believe Meat is over the top with this............... Quote:
Most of the posts on this forum are positive (as you'd expect on a fan forum). There have been pleas not to leave the forum, posts of love and devotion, some have posted supporting your stance (with giving reasons why) and I think they are the most supportive posts of all. But to reply to a whole forum that you are not liked because somebody holds an opinion different to your own concerning a freaking prayer on a wall is (and I say this with all the love in the world, even though the "dislikes" are going to go through the roof) as silly and one minded as the people who made such a fuss about taking down a prayer they didn't happen to agree with. Meat, I love you a lot, but look at the support you have on the forum, and for God's sake stop thinking that just because someone disagrees with a public stance you take means they hate you. Last edited by The Flying Mouse; 15 Apr 2012 at 21:11. |
|
1 User Likes This Post. |