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meat loaf is my god · 25 Jun 2004, 13:23

Hay Sin

I have a big problem and i would be hapy for adivce or help of anyone.
Its like this there is this girl i really like and i did something stupid last night me and mate were talking and well we made a bet of who would get with her first. Then me standing by the saying "All is fair in love and war" went and told her about the bet to get the upper hand but it back fired on me and she got upset then i realized that it didnt matter then my mate found out and now he is not speking to me and neither is she and now thay Are Dating and i no what i have done is wrong but i am just finding it hard to cope at the moment and i carnt See my other mates because thay are always with them i have lost evrything help.

Rob The Badger · 25 Jun 2004, 17:13

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Originally Posted by meat loaf is my god

Hay Sin

I have a big problem and i would be hapy for adivce or help of anyone.
Its like this there is this girl i really like and i did something stupid last night me and mate were talking and well we made a bet of who would get with her first. Then me standing by the saying "All is fair in love and war" went and told her about the bet to get the upper hand but it back fired on me and she got upset then i realized that it didnt matter then my mate found out and now he is not speking to me and neither is she and now thay Are Dating and i no what i have done is wrong but i am just finding it hard to cope at the moment and i carnt See my other mates because thay are always with them i have lost evrything help.

This seems like an awful position now, but you're better off. Trust me.

Bren · 25 Jun 2004, 17:33

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Originally Posted by airhead

Dear auntie sn.

I am even more depressed!!!!
My head is in a permanent spin, I have a headache and backache, i have just moved and I miss my nan. I just want to get my head back into gear and don't know what is wrong with me. I have lost a stone in weight too by no eating.

I'm not myself. i just want to shut away from the world. How can I start a new school when I'm like this????

love, eddie

Aunty Bren Here......( hope you don't mind Aunty Sin)

Dear Airhead,
Moving somewhere new, and especially starting a new school can seem a very daunting prospect.Try to look at it in a positive light, new oportunities, new friends, a new challenge.....
at the moment,you are feeling depressed....but normally here on the forums in your posts you sound very positive,and see the funny side of things....you're like a little ray of sunshine bouncing about the forum, making others laugh and smile...
You have a lot going for you, you are clever, creative have a good sense of humour ....be proud of who you are!
hold your head up high, think to yourself," i can do this"...and just be yourself

you have many friends here, to talk to....remember that

Biter · 19 Jul 2004, 19:37

Is this thread still running?
Well, see what you make of this... I was with my boyfriend, Scott, for two years. I loved him, he loved me and we were inseperable. Early last year, I got pregnant and miscarried and our relationship went downhill (no surprises there). A few months ago, he won a scholarship to study at the Liverpool Institute for Performing Arts. We are still friends but he expects me to drop everything and be with him as soon as he comes home for a few days. When I said no, he said I was a bad friend and that really hurt. Was he right? I don't know any more.

airhead · 19 Jul 2004, 22:51

Inseperable ain't the word... you two was joined to the hip!

Skeleton · 02 Aug 2004, 21:57

Hey Sin,

Could you give me a good advice how to get some sleep.

I´m really insomniac.

On Sunday (it was Monday 1 a.m.) when I get some sleep. It wouldn´t be a problem but I had to woke up Monday 5 a.m get to work...

So does anyone have a good advice to me?

I´ve tried to drink warm milk before I go to bed and dimming the lights hours before going to bed and I don´t eat heavily before I go to sleep but nothing smeems to work. Sometimes those tricks works but not all the time...

Please Help!!

Bren · 02 Aug 2004, 22:02

Try listening to music......usually works

Bren

Chris · 02 Aug 2004, 22:04

Lie on the edge of the bed, you will soon drop off!!!

Seriously tho, have the same problem with needing to be p for work at 5am.

One trick is to put Lavender Oil on your pillow case to make you drowsy. Also try turning down the heat or opening a window in the room you sleep in.

Also Classic Gold radio are doing a how about this on friday so i will listen adn see what advice the doc gives!!

Skeleton · 02 Aug 2004, 22:21

I´ve been listening to Meat´s music and I fell a sleep sometimes. His music and especially his voice calms me down. (His music is NOT boring) I can´t help myself that everything pops into my mind when I had to go to sleep. My best friend says that I think too much..

It was only Monday when I had to woke up 5 a.m. Next time on Friday.

Thanks bout the advice. I´ll go and try those tonight.

airhead · 05 Aug 2004, 18:04

try cuddling a teddy bear, it works for me (Did I just say that??????

)

or malt drinks. Or a musical box, it´s tinkly tune helps me.

airhead · 25 Sep 2004, 20:50

Dear agony aunt (or uncle)

I am feeling a little better, but still having problems. I mean everytime i think, a new problem in my mind pops up. I mean some are rediculous but some are serious. There is actually two probs here, so please understand that if i could stop these thoughts i would. I can't help it. Everywhere i turn theres something new bugging me and its all starting to pile up in my brain and i'm always scared.

The latest is crushes (now his don't sound serious but it's confusing me so much.) i haven't met any boys i've had a proper crush on, and neither with girls, and the only crush i've had is with a man. Why can't i be normal and have normal crushes like other girls?

(Told you it was stupid)

love eddie

Biter · 25 Sep 2004, 23:36

dont worry eds...you are normal. I dont know any teenagers who havnt had a dry period where boys are concerned.

anyway, sometimes it is healthy to have a crush on a man...helps you shape your views of some of the immature boys who think theyre god's gift.

Bren · 26 Sep 2004, 16:06

airhead wrote

Why can't i be normal and have normal crushes like other girls?

...you will ..when the right person comes along

....and it doesn't mean you're not normal...you are so don't worry

love
bren

Keab42 · 01 Feb 2005, 02:18

Dear Aunty Sin,

Where have you gone?

When will you return??

RSG · 15 Mar 2005, 00:52

HELP RSG, please, i'm so f***ing scared

um, my new e-mail address is takethelongroadhome@hotmail.com

i need to talk to someone asap. i don't know what else to do...for now.

airhead · 16 Mar 2005, 15:58

woah, RSG... whats wrong eh? Private probs? I'll e mail soon (tonight) and you can tell me. Trust me, i'm real good with secrets cos i forget as soon as i hear them. Don't woory!

RSG · 25 Mar 2005, 23:21

well everything is better.. but man i was so scared last week.
sorry for the scared alarm...

Bren · 26 Mar 2005, 02:02

glad things are better RSG

Fallen Angel · 30 Mar 2005, 16:57

hey Sin
I aint ever posted on this thread but i need some friendly advice. ive just fell out with my b/f and i explained to him why it didnt work out. however he came out with all this B.S and has made me feel a lot worse than i did, i really dont know what to do to get over it as emotionally, sad to admit, im a lil unstable. how to a get over the guys b.s? i also have a lot more stuff i need help with but cant post it on the board..sin plz help: email is: neverstoprocking@hotmail.com
hugs
leeann

airhead · 08 Sep 2005, 21:59

Dear Sin

I'm feeling really stupid. Long story short, I had a friend for a while who was a boy, and I fancied him for a few months back. I've grown out of it tho, and a few weeks ago I went over there as a friend wearing a black blouse over a t shirt for show. After a while it got hot in his room (I was watching him play video games... boring) and I took it off because it was bugging me, leaving me with my t shirt on. I left the house, and i forgot the black shirt. Thinking nothing of it and i'll go get it later, I shook it off and went home.

Now I have a funeral to go to tommorow, and mum asked me where the blouse was. I told her, around my friends house, and she went nuts. now she thinks I've gone and done something stupid and she's not listening to a word i say. She never does anymore.

I never tell her what goes on in my life, romantic or not, or my problems because she has enough problems of her own, and i'm worried that if I tell her, she'll go nuts and get more stressed out. I dont tell anyone my problems anyway. She comes home stressed out or depressed and I think shes got enough on her plate to deal with me, and now she doesn't trust me.

Tell me what to do, my friends are busy and I dont know who to talk to.

luff
the airheaded one.
xxx

25 Jun 2004, 13:23	#751
meat loaf is my god Loafer Join Date: 19.01.2004 Location: worcester Posts: 94	Hay Sin I have a big problem and i would be hapy for adivce or help of anyone. Its like this there is this girl i really like and i did something stupid last night me and mate were talking and well we made a bet of who would get with her first. Then me standing by the saying "All is fair in love and war" went and told her about the bet to get the upper hand but it back fired on me and she got upset then i realized that it didnt matter then my mate found out and now he is not speking to me and neither is she and now thay Are Dating and i no what i have done is wrong but i am just finding it hard to cope at the moment and i carnt See my other mates because thay are always with them i have lost evrything help.

19 Jul 2004, 19:37	#754
Biter Lurker Join Date: 12.07.2004 Location: Kent Posts: 1,067	Is this thread still running? Well, see what you make of this... I was with my boyfriend, Scott, for two years. I loved him, he loved me and we were inseperable. Early last year, I got pregnant and miscarried and our relationship went downhill (no surprises there). A few months ago, he won a scholarship to study at the Liverpool Institute for Performing Arts. We are still friends but he expects me to drop everything and be with him as soon as he comes home for a few days. When I said no, he said I was a bad friend and that really hurt. Was he right? I don't know any more.

19 Jul 2004, 22:51	#755
airhead the enchanted spleen Join Date: 12.02.2004 Location: ok, you see that sweet little cottage? I live next door in the nuthouse. Posts: 1,909	Inseperable ain't the word... you two was joined to the hip!

02 Aug 2004, 21:57	#756
Skeleton Mega Loafer Join Date: 13.10.2003 Location: Grinning, Ducking & Running Posts: 3,668	Hey Sin, Could you give me a good advice how to get some sleep. I´m really insomniac. On Sunday (it was Monday 1 a.m.) when I get some sleep. It wouldn´t be a problem but I had to woke up Monday 5 a.m get to work... So does anyone have a good advice to me? I´ve tried to drink warm milk before I go to bed and dimming the lights hours before going to bed and I don´t eat heavily before I go to sleep but nothing smeems to work. Sometimes those tricks works but not all the time... Please Help!!

02 Aug 2004, 22:02	#757
Bren The Bat Join Date: 23.03.2003 Location: Roosting on a Silver-Black Phantom Bike. Posts: 10,017	Try listening to music......usually works Bren

02 Aug 2004, 22:04	#758
Chris Mega Loafer Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Somewhere in the real world. Posts: 7,527	Lie on the edge of the bed, you will soon drop off!!! Seriously tho, have the same problem with needing to be p for work at 5am. One trick is to put Lavender Oil on your pillow case to make you drowsy. Also try turning down the heat or opening a window in the room you sleep in. Also Classic Gold radio are doing a how about this on friday so i will listen adn see what advice the doc gives!!

02 Aug 2004, 22:21	#759
Skeleton Mega Loafer Join Date: 13.10.2003 Location: Grinning, Ducking & Running Posts: 3,668	I´ve been listening to Meat´s music and I fell a sleep sometimes. His music and especially his voice calms me down. (His music is NOT boring) I can´t help myself that everything pops into my mind when I had to go to sleep. My best friend says that I think too much.. It was only Monday when I had to woke up 5 a.m. Next time on Friday. Thanks bout the advice. I´ll go and try those tonight.

05 Aug 2004, 18:04	#760
airhead the enchanted spleen Join Date: 12.02.2004 Location: ok, you see that sweet little cottage? I live next door in the nuthouse. Posts: 1,909	try cuddling a teddy bear, it works for me (Did I just say that?????? ) or malt drinks. Or a musical box, it´s tinkly tune helps me.

25 Sep 2004, 20:50	#761
airhead the enchanted spleen Join Date: 12.02.2004 Location: ok, you see that sweet little cottage? I live next door in the nuthouse. Posts: 1,909	Dear agony aunt (or uncle) I am feeling a little better, but still having problems. I mean everytime i think, a new problem in my mind pops up. I mean some are rediculous but some are serious. There is actually two probs here, so please understand that if i could stop these thoughts i would. I can't help it. Everywhere i turn theres something new bugging me and its all starting to pile up in my brain and i'm always scared. The latest is crushes (now his don't sound serious but it's confusing me so much.) i haven't met any boys i've had a proper crush on, and neither with girls, and the only crush i've had is with a man. Why can't i be normal and have normal crushes like other girls? (Told you it was stupid) love eddie

25 Sep 2004, 23:36	#762
Biter Lurker Join Date: 12.07.2004 Location: Kent Posts: 1,067	dont worry eds...you are normal. I dont know any teenagers who havnt had a dry period where boys are concerned. anyway, sometimes it is healthy to have a crush on a man...helps you shape your views of some of the immature boys who think theyre god's gift.

26 Sep 2004, 16:06	#763
Bren The Bat Join Date: 23.03.2003 Location: Roosting on a Silver-Black Phantom Bike. Posts: 10,017	airhead wrote Why can't i be normal and have normal crushes like other girls? ...you will ..when the right person comes along ....and it doesn't mean you're not normal...you are so don't worry love bren

01 Feb 2005, 02:18	#764
Keab42 Astrophysicist At Large Join Date: 19.04.2003 Location: Beneath his dreaming tree Posts: 4,284	Dear Aunty Sin, Where have you gone? When will you return??

15 Mar 2005, 00:52	#765
RSG Mega Loafer Join Date: 27.07.2003 Location: Canada Posts: 3,296	HELP RSG, please, i'm so f***ing scared um, my new e-mail address is takethelongroadhome@hotmail.com i need to talk to someone asap. i don't know what else to do...for now.

16 Mar 2005, 15:58	#766
airhead the enchanted spleen Join Date: 12.02.2004 Location: ok, you see that sweet little cottage? I live next door in the nuthouse. Posts: 1,909	woah, RSG... whats wrong eh? Private probs? I'll e mail soon (tonight) and you can tell me. Trust me, i'm real good with secrets cos i forget as soon as i hear them. Don't woory!

25 Mar 2005, 23:21	#767
RSG Mega Loafer Join Date: 27.07.2003 Location: Canada Posts: 3,296	well everything is better.. but man i was so scared last week. sorry for the scared alarm...

26 Mar 2005, 02:02	#768
Bren The Bat Join Date: 23.03.2003 Location: Roosting on a Silver-Black Phantom Bike. Posts: 10,017	glad things are better RSG

30 Mar 2005, 16:57	#769
Fallen Angel Youth Gone Wild Join Date: 19.09.2003 Location: See the mad one over there.... Posts: 693	hey Sin I aint ever posted on this thread but i need some friendly advice. ive just fell out with my b/f and i explained to him why it didnt work out. however he came out with all this B.S and has made me feel a lot worse than i did, i really dont know what to do to get over it as emotionally, sad to admit, im a lil unstable. how to a get over the guys b.s? i also have a lot more stuff i need help with but cant post it on the board..sin plz help: email is: neverstoprocking@hotmail.com hugs leeann

08 Sep 2005, 21:59	#770
airhead the enchanted spleen Join Date: 12.02.2004 Location: ok, you see that sweet little cottage? I live next door in the nuthouse. Posts: 1,909	Dear Sin I'm feeling really stupid. Long story short, I had a friend for a while who was a boy, and I fancied him for a few months back. I've grown out of it tho, and a few weeks ago I went over there as a friend wearing a black blouse over a t shirt for show. After a while it got hot in his room (I was watching him play video games... boring) and I took it off because it was bugging me, leaving me with my t shirt on. I left the house, and i forgot the black shirt. Thinking nothing of it and i'll go get it later, I shook it off and went home. Now I have a funeral to go to tommorow, and mum asked me where the blouse was. I told her, around my friends house, and she went nuts. now she thinks I've gone and done something stupid and she's not listening to a word i say. She never does anymore. I never tell her what goes on in my life, romantic or not, or my problems because she has enough problems of her own, and i'm worried that if I tell her, she'll go nuts and get more stressed out. I dont tell anyone my problems anyway. She comes home stressed out or depressed and I think shes got enough on her plate to deal with me, and now she doesn't trust me. Tell me what to do, my friends are busy and I dont know who to talk to. luff the airheaded one. xxx