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Lets just hope Meat comes back on here soon and lets us know he he's doing. Sounds really upset. I hope the whole band knows how he feels and that they're talking about it, and planning how to deal with it.
He's right, at his age, and with what he's done in his life, he shouldn't have to put up with this shit right now. Its too much, probably extremely overwhelming. Then again, you can't control people, they do and say what they please. When I find myself in these situations, my best bet is usually to talk to people, like my councillor or best friends. Have them remind you that you are good enough the way you are, and bullies are usually insecure themselves. They bully others because they are themselves the victims of bullies. You have to get back to that comfortable center of "this is who I am, this is what I do, it is good enough, I do it because I love this work, and my good work ethic should always be enough to get me through anything" |
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Meat, you show me the enemy, someone I can fight to help you conquer these cyber bullies, and I will do whatever I can to help.
I just can't see who the enemy is right now. Its hard to tell who is upsetting you the most. But show me to to fight and I will fight for you. |
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don't give up. you are the best. Come back to usa and europe, here you have truly fans. We want to see u in europe this year
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IMHO we need to give Meat his space right now ... but, as you say, hopefully he'll come back on here when he's ready to let us know he's doing better. I know he has said in the past how he considers the band his family, so at least we know he has someone else to talk to if he needs it.
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I hope we can set the record straight. As tacky as it sounds, it was done out of love and our want for him to succeed. I hope Meat takes some time, talks to some people, before he decides on what he wants to do. Last edited by TheDoode; 25 Oct 2011 at 00:23. |
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And, I'm certain the band knows and is doing their very best to support him the best way they know how to. I think Meat and the NLE enjoy a relationship more akin to a family relationship than employer-employee. Fingers crossed that he is feeling better now, and Monday's frustrations were just that - vents to friends and he is now once again in kick butt, rock 'n' roll MEAT LOAF mode! Sue |
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It is unfortunate that all the online bullies who kept saying Meat should call it a day may have ironically gotten their way. Most of those people were likely never fans anyway and even fewer probably went to a concert. They wanted to spoil everything for Meat and they seem to have accomplished it. We all feel supportive of Meat and want the best for him. I will accept whatever decision he has made. Say it ain't so, but it seems the cyber bullies and stupid media have won this go round. Makes you wonder who the next target will be and if this will embolden them even more.
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When I first heard of the concept of having a "web identity", like having people display who they are at all times, I disliked the idea, for security purposes. But with this issue with Meat, I'm really starting to come around to the idea that if people are no longer "anonymous", they will post with more caution. To see someone I know and care about, who I see perform and sweat and cry and laugh with us, be treated this way by anonymous internet jerks is heart breaking. And I want justice, but how can you get justice when people are anonymous? |
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I saw that on TV today, and they said the fans booed her because she didn't come over to talk to them, even though some had been waiting for hours. In all fairness, that isn't her fault.
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The majority of the internet is a universe full of fools and trolls who hide behind a keyboard and write anything they think might be controversial or harsh in order to satisfy there sad little existence. They write disgusting comments without any form of conscious or humanity, it is disturbing and worrying but something that has existed for a long time and will never go away. And for the media and the press...they have always been that way, editing things, jumping of the band wagon making stories from nothing at all. There are very few reliable journalistic newspapers and sites that just report facts and don’t distort truth in order to favour a particular side. I have said this before but even megastars like Adele has said she wouldn’t dare go on youtube because of the hideous and hurtful comments people say would make her want to quit, the joys of freedom of speech ay?
I HOPE this is Meat pissed and he won’t actually take the drastic action of hanging up the hanky. Simply for the fact it sends a message to the people that they have some form of control over the lives and careers of others because of there views and opinions. Sadly people are influenced by the media on politics and popular culture, the media tells people what to wear, what to listen to, what to watch and who to vote for and sadly many people follow it, believe in it and conform to it. But perhaps more importantly i can say with my hand on my heart i don’t think Meat is at a stage in his career where he should give it up because he can’t perform any longer. Meat knows deep down inside he still has it, he can still put on a tremendous shows. He knows the majority of his fans go home happy, i will honestly say when i feel time has caught up with the guy and he should call in a day (and that day scares me if it ever happens) but that day in my view has yet to come. We can only imagine the pain Meat must feel, i feel deeply sorry for him and he has my full support. The hatred people have is cruel and unjustified and when you feel the world is against you, you just want to get away and leave it behind. I hope Meat comes here and realises how much we love him and we are all here for him. While i respect his decision i hope he gets back on the saddle, brushes it off and puts Australia behind him. The states and Europe are waiting for the album, they are waiting for Meat. |
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I agree, Meat needs some space. He has things to do, things to focus on, raw feelings to heal, and some distance to put between himself and all the nonsense and ignorant abuse he's suffered. I believe he knows that he does what he does to fulfil his own passion and for his fans, and he knows his fans love him, still want to see him doing what he does so well, and support and love him ... and that will endure whatever he does or doesn't do.
You can only be pushed so far .. then you need time to regroup and get clarity. Meat isn't the man to give in to bullies who are simply not part of why he performs. He's achieved a peak in his game this past couple of years, and deserves when he does hang up the concert shoes to do this on a high, and because he has yet more roads to travel and mountains to scale. That seems to be to be the essence of this remarkable man. One of the most valuable things I've learned is that sometimes if you want an answer now it will have to be no .. if you are prepared to wait, it might be yes. We also serve who simply stand and wait Caryl Last edited by CarylB; 25 Oct 2011 at 02:23. |
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Hi Meat,
I would be dissapointed if you did leave you amazing carer after so many years. I was a bag of mixed emotions after you Brisbane Concert, I think I had been worked up up to seeing such a fantastic overall show and was a bit dissapointed but when I stopped to think about it a few day later it was FANTASTIC. I travelled to see you and I had the pleasure of meeting a wonderful lady and a fan of yours (original fan I call her) in the foyer that night and had travelled from the far reaches of the state (3 hour plane trip and a 5 hour drive to the airport) to see you I only travelled about 3 hours from NSW to see you but it was a dream come true for me. Aussies have a very bad habit of knocking people down that have acheived major things in their life and it is a very shameful habit of this great nation. Tall Poppy Syndrome it is called if they can't find anything bad to say about you they will make it up. Then you have the stupid flock of sheep that hang onto every single word and breath that comes from the media machines that feed them the crap that spills from their press machines. Seeing you in concert was the best thing I have done in my life and it was a reward for me (single mum with a disabled child and morgage money is tight) and it was the best reward I could ever have. My first time in hearing you music was on LP (yes remember those ?? LOL) and I fell in love there and then with you music, you lyrics and I must admit it was another 2 years before I actually saw a film clip of you. Your persona you love of life and you dedication to the music industry and the Painted Turtle has inspired many people including this lil ol mum. It will be a great shame if you do retire I would love to see you again personaly, and hope that my kids who have had you blasted to them since in the womb will be able to see you too (my daughter nearly killed me when I said I was going LOL) Thank you for all you have done and I hope that you will keep on rocking as you have inspired me to do in my life. Last edited by Dragonflydreamer1972; 25 Oct 2011 at 02:38. Reason: Spelling mistakes and missed a word, in sentence makes sense now LOL |
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