Patti....

heat · 20 Apr 2003, 21:33

Hi all,

Hope you don't mind me posting this as i really dont want to cause an argument or anything

, but on the shout board there has been a bloke called Crib Shot who has really been slagging Patti off.

I replied that although everyone is entitled to thier opinion, sometimes it's more appropriate NOT to give an opinion if it causes offence. While i respect Crib's right to free speech, i have found his remarks about Patti to be rude at best, and at worst bang out of order. I know that if i don't like it, i don't have to read it, but it just doesn't seem fair as Patti doesn't have a chance to defend herself on here.

That's me had my moan, and i've probably come across as a right winger, but i donn't think it's fair to pick on someone who's in no position to fight back.

Heat
xxx

dottie · 20 Apr 2003, 21:36

Yes I read as well I think this person should be kicked out - there are ways and ways of saying things without being obnoxious

Tim · 20 Apr 2003, 21:40

Heat,

Thanks very much, i know that the mods on this forum are working on it. Offcourse everybody has his right to speak, but sometimes it can go to far. I'm one of the persons who has gone to far in some other forums, but i know.....it was my opinion, but it was rude.

Evyerbody can speak what they want, but insulting another person, that's bad. It can't be done. not on the internet. But...... The internet is a way of communication, and sometimes that can be read in the wrong way. But don't think that is in this way.

I'm glad you said it in the shoutbox, and now here on this forum. I won't close this, cause i want to speak open about it.

Well, i will come back on this, but don't know the right English words for now.

Tim, The Butcher.

Jen · 20 Apr 2003, 21:53

Gotta agree with ya Heat, this Crib Shot person did go a bit far, especially when Patti's not here to defend herself.

It's fair enough to have you're own opinions but I was always taught that if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.

Jen

heat · 20 Apr 2003, 21:55

Thank god it's not just me...there was i thinking i was being neurotic

Heat
xxx

Tim · 20 Apr 2003, 21:55

Indeed, Patti had to defend herself, but she can't, that is low. And you can say something that is not nice, but it is the way you type it. It is internet, and things can't be misunderstood easily!!

But i agree, that person has gone to far!

R. · 20 Apr 2003, 22:06

I have seen these posts and have deleted them out ouf the shoutbox history.
That was yesterday. It this continues, a copy of these posts will be sent to abuse@energis.com

Tim · 20 Apr 2003, 22:09

Tnx R. seen it, hope that will works. This is to bad!!

Shadows On The Wall · 22 Apr 2003, 16:42

Yea, ive read those messages, cant the moderator block him or somthing. Everyonne can ave an opinion but he is taking it to far.

CribShot · 24 Apr 2003, 19:02

Quote:

i donn't think it's fair to pick on someone who's in no position to fight back.

In no position? That's not my fault.

I believe my comments have been taken out of all proportion. I simply voiced my bête-noir towards the person you call Patti. At no stage did I use foul and gratuitous language, and I still maintain that I was within my rights to most such comments.

Regards,
Crib Shot.

jcmoorehead · 25 Apr 2003, 13:16

I like the way you said "The Person we call Patti" We call her that because its her name. Secondly i'm all for having an opinion but you were well out of line with those comments.

Shadows On The Wall · 25 Apr 2003, 17:48

I think we all better leave it at that, Meat ( FireBall) has already told him

Michel · 26 Apr 2003, 09:37

Yes, Meat has told him the truth.

Good work R..

Tim · 26 Apr 2003, 12:11

Okay, then i will close this topic now.

Reactions on this, send to me by PM or Mail.

The Butcher, Tim

20 Apr 2003, 21:33	#1
heat Rampant Loafer... Join Date: 29.07.2002 Location: welshy wales Posts: 5,706	Patti.... Hi all, Hope you don't mind me posting this as i really dont want to cause an argument or anything , but on the shout board there has been a bloke called Crib Shot who has really been slagging Patti off. I replied that although everyone is entitled to thier opinion, sometimes it's more appropriate NOT to give an opinion if it causes offence. While i respect Crib's right to free speech, i have found his remarks about Patti to be rude at best, and at worst bang out of order. I know that if i don't like it, i don't have to read it, but it just doesn't seem fair as Patti doesn't have a chance to defend herself on here. That's me had my moan, and i've probably come across as a right winger, but i donn't think it's fair to pick on someone who's in no position to fight back. Heat xxx

20 Apr 2003, 21:36	#2
dottie queen post- whore extraordinaire Join Date: 29.01.2003 Location: Still Rockin' at "72" Posts: 13,181	Yes I read as well I think this person should be kicked out - there are ways and ways of saying things without being obnoxious

20 Apr 2003, 21:40	#3
Tim The Butcher Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Westervoort, The Netherlands Posts: 10,321	Heat, Thanks very much, i know that the mods on this forum are working on it. Offcourse everybody has his right to speak, but sometimes it can go to far. I'm one of the persons who has gone to far in some other forums, but i know.....it was my opinion, but it was rude. Evyerbody can speak what they want, but insulting another person, that's bad. It can't be done. not on the internet. But...... The internet is a way of communication, and sometimes that can be read in the wrong way. But don't think that is in this way. I'm glad you said it in the shoutbox, and now here on this forum. I won't close this, cause i want to speak open about it. Well, i will come back on this, but don't know the right English words for now. Tim, The Butcher.

20 Apr 2003, 21:53	#4
Jen Arrrgh! Join Date: 01.03.2003 Location: Edinburgh Posts: 2,938	Gotta agree with ya Heat, this Crib Shot person did go a bit far, especially when Patti's not here to defend herself. It's fair enough to have you're own opinions but I was always taught that if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all. Jen

20 Apr 2003, 21:55	#5
heat Rampant Loafer... Join Date: 29.07.2002 Location: welshy wales Posts: 5,706	Thank god it's not just me...there was i thinking i was being neurotic Heat xxx

20 Apr 2003, 22:06	#7
R. You dig. Join Date: 02.04.2002 Location: On the fothermucker Posts: 7,179	I have seen these posts and have deleted them out ouf the shoutbox history. That was yesterday. It this continues, a copy of these posts will be sent to abuse@energis.com

20 Apr 2003, 22:09	#8
Tim The Butcher Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Westervoort, The Netherlands Posts: 10,321	Tnx R. seen it, hope that will works. This is to bad!!

22 Apr 2003, 16:42	#9
Shadows On The Wall Super Loafer Join Date: 17.03.2003 Location: Wales Posts: 278	Yea, ive read those messages, cant the moderator block him or somthing. Everyonne can ave an opinion but he is taking it to far.

25 Apr 2003, 13:16	#11
jcmoorehead Super Loafer Join Date: 09.04.2003 Location: Edinburgh, formerly Teesside Posts: 671	I like the way you said "The Person we call Patti" We call her that because its her name. Secondly i'm all for having an opinion but you were well out of line with those comments.

25 Apr 2003, 17:48	#12
Shadows On The Wall Super Loafer Join Date: 17.03.2003 Location: Wales Posts: 278	I think we all better leave it at that, Meat ( FireBall) has already told him

26 Apr 2003, 09:37	#13
Michel Mega Loafer Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Stadskanaal, The Netherlands Posts: 1,631	Yes, Meat has told him the truth. Good work R..

26 Apr 2003, 12:11	#14
Tim The Butcher Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Westervoort, The Netherlands Posts: 10,321	Okay, then i will close this topic now. Reactions on this, send to me by PM or Mail. The Butcher, Tim