Yet again, i am burning my bra.

airhead · 24 Mar 2005, 21:41

This is a really weird thread. But after the experience i had last night, I just wanna say to all those girls, women, ladies, whatever...

NEVER LET ANYONE, AND I MEAN ANYONE, TOUCH, HURT, OR IN ANYWAY UPSET YOU.

I have already had to punch, kick, and say **** off to a boy in my school. He was touching my private areas and even hurt my boob where he poked it too hard, but luckily, i had someone there.

He is a shrimp so i could knock him out easy, and hopefully i've nipped it in the bud before something bad happened, and i'm a heck lucky it was just that, but remember girls, never let anyone take advantage of you. (he even had the nerve to ask for hug this morning).

That is all I have to say. I just needed to blow off steam.

PS: I also mean this to those men out there being hurt by women. This goes the same way.

Tim · 24 Mar 2005, 21:43

Wow... see you are upset and angry. Some people have all the nerves and do everything. Just sick, really sick!!

Testify · 24 Mar 2005, 23:34

if in doubt kick him in the balls

Biter · 25 Mar 2005, 00:23

You want me to come down hon? I'll rip the little ****ers scrotum off

airhead · 25 Mar 2005, 16:10

Will you really do that for me, Biter??? :)

He had been driving me insane for a few months now, and the little ~~~~~~~ liked being hit!!!!

So I drove him to humiliation, and he didn't speak to me for the rest of the day. i hope he doesn't move from me onto a girl who can't handle this kinda stuff.

Rob The Badger · 25 Mar 2005, 23:42

Wow...maybe you should ride a bike instead.

airhead · 26 Mar 2005, 00:42

what???

Rob The Badger · 26 Mar 2005, 02:05

Instead of getting angry and "humiliating" people. It's not good for your karma.

Biter · 26 Mar 2005, 10:40

Yeah ed, I would. Give the word and I will be there tomorrow morning if I can find a way of driving up there. This happenned to me at work last thursday so I know exactly how you feel. Get the police involved as you can get the nobhead done for assault. Tell your teachers too.

And Rob, if it happened to you, you'd be livid.

Rob The Badger · 26 Mar 2005, 12:19

Perhaps. But you're blowing things out of proportion. Police? Please...

Biter · 26 Mar 2005, 22:05

Why is it wrong to get the police involved? If he aint sorted out now, the little sod's gonna be doing it over and over again. No use telling the parents cos thay will probably do jack all. I have got the police on to the guy that attacked me and as a result I feel much safer. Ok, its company policy for me but it should apply wherever you are.
Im gonna be accused of Sexism now or something silly like that but boys have it a hell of a lot easier than women. You hardly ever hear about a man being assaulted like that wheras it happens many times daily for women and I for one am sick of it. Some people think they have the right to do anything and it isnt on. I can argue this point for hours, and if I need to, I will. Unless it has happened to you Rob, you aint got no idea what it feels like and I hope you never will.

Jen x

Rob The Badger · 27 Mar 2005, 00:38

Sexist.
The reason that you do not hear about men being assaulted in this way is because traditional gender roles force males to feel ashamed of being beaten or assaulted by a woman. Therefore the report rate is lower.
Also, did you know that a woman cannot be convicted of rape?
Think about that before you throw your feminist radicalism around.

Biter · 27 Mar 2005, 04:34

Whos chucking feminist radicalism around? Its a fact of life. Genetically, men are bigger and rougher than women and im not ashamed to say that. Also, women are a hell of a lot more vunerable. Put yourself in my shoes - I go to work. I get sexually assaulted while doing my job. Thankfully somebody got me out of that situation before it got really ugly. Emma goes to school/out with friends and gets assaulted in the same way. Does that make it any less traumatic?

Before you start having a go at her for fighting back and tell her to "ride a bike" in case karma creeps up and bites her in the arse, think about the people who have had to actually go through it. As I said in my last post, I hope you never experience it but its a cold fact that millions upon millions of women have to suffer it and its almost like its brushed under the carpet.

I agree that most men will feel emasculated by admitting they are being beaten up by a woman (as you said, there are hardly any reported cases) but the truth is it happens a hell of a lot less than if the tables were turned. Im not condoning it, as I think all people that commit violence against "loved" ones are the lowest forms of life.

And yes, I did know that in this country a woman cannot be charged with rape. They can be charged with harassment, statuatory(sp?) rape and sexual assault but who brought up rape, Rob? If you wanna speak about that, we can speak about that, but not on here.

Now I, for one, am sick of arguing with you. Im on here to try to comfort my best friend, who I cant phone at the moment for reasons I'm not gonna go into. She didn't ask to be almost snapped at.

Goodnight.

scotty · 27 Mar 2005, 11:49

As a man I would like to say you have been victims of the male minority, It deeply saddens me and I almost feel ashamed when you hear stories of rape,sexual harrasment etc, But please don't tie all of the male population with the same brush, These perverts are sick and warped but believe me they are a tiny minority!

Rob The Badger · 27 Mar 2005, 12:35

I for one, Bitey, am sick of being treated as somehow inferior to women because I'm stonger and bigger than a lot of them. Get off your moral high horse. Sorry it happened to you and all but you need to realise the world doesn't really care. Perhaps if you see what really happens everyday, genocide, war, pestilance you'd probably think a few fellahs looking for a bit o' grab at your expense isn't that pertinent.

Biter · 27 Mar 2005, 17:43

Yeah, I know NO-ONE CARES and thats why im so f'in angry. The only people those that have sufferred it can turn to is themselves. Even their friends dont support them.

Ive just realised what a ****ing idiot I am even bothering to argue with you. Every time I make a valid point, you throw "feminism" in my face and its almost like you patronise everybody, male and female, that this has happened to. Yes, its ignored, and it bloody hurts that nobody takes it seriously.

Now I know why I didnt bother coming online for a week.

And dont call me bitey. ever.

airhead · 29 Mar 2005, 00:30

thanks biter, only i get to call ya bitey.

Thank you, and yes, rob its true its happened to me in a total of three times (yes, THREE times a man has "assulted" me) and i'm so lucky it hasn't been rape yet, just invasion. Why do you think i dont go in the local pet shop anymore??? Perv tried to get me into the back of the shop last summer.

Rob, it doesn't have to be rape to hurt. Even the first touch somewhere can be incredibly anger and hurt inducing, so why lay down and let the little ~~~~~~~ walk all over you and treat you like an object? I KNOW you would say the same rob. YOU GET OFF YOUR HIGH MORALS HORSE.

And i can't ring Biter very much because she goes to work and I'm busy at night with GCSE homework.

*hugs jenna* thanx, mate.

love, the airhead.

Biter · 29 Mar 2005, 02:11

Send me your number? Pleeeeeeeeeeeease?

Ooh and I got that utter ****ball that attacked me today. I got a bit roughed up but now the police have got him. Which is good.

airhead · 29 Mar 2005, 16:16

who hurt ya? Can i come down to dagenham and tie his tongue to an icy lamppost and cut his nipples off with a rusty breadknife please? I hope he goes DOWN.

And yes, the little shit who upset me i going down tonight. He has been doing the exact thing to one of my best friends and me and her are gonna teach him a thing or two about women. What goes around, comes around, mike!!!!

Biter · 29 Mar 2005, 19:05

Be careful....

airhead · 30 Mar 2005, 01:16

It didn't happen. Oh well.

I've been trying ta ring ya, jen, no ones answering your home!

Biter · 30 Mar 2005, 11:57

Tis cos i'm never in!!!!

Rob The Badger · 30 Mar 2005, 16:19

You must be the unluckiest person in the world if this just happens to you all the time. Either that or you dress suggestively. No one does care, and no one cares that it pisses you off. Also, I don't patronise anyone, I'm honest. Din't think that was something to be ashamed of.

Fallen Angel · 30 Mar 2005, 16:46

Quote:

Originally Posted by Testify

if in doubt kick him in the balls

Couldnt agree better!

Fallen Angel · 30 Mar 2005, 16:53

Hey,
Unforunatley i can relate to Eddie's situation but sadly there was nothing i thought i could do about it. Rob why were you having a go?
We should all stick together n support each other N.M.W!!!
Eddie, hun, you ever need help give us a shout.
hugs
leeann

24 Mar 2005, 21:41	#1
airhead the enchanted spleen Join Date: 12.02.2004 Location: ok, you see that sweet little cottage? I live next door in the nuthouse. Posts: 1,909	Yet again, i am burning my bra. This is a really weird thread. But after the experience i had last night, I just wanna say to all those girls, women, ladies, whatever... NEVER LET ANYONE, AND I MEAN ANYONE, TOUCH, HURT, OR IN ANYWAY UPSET YOU. I have already had to punch, kick, and say **** off to a boy in my school. He was touching my private areas and even hurt my boob where he poked it too hard, but luckily, i had someone there. He is a shrimp so i could knock him out easy, and hopefully i've nipped it in the bud before something bad happened, and i'm a heck lucky it was just that, but remember girls, never let anyone take advantage of you. (he even had the nerve to ask for hug this morning). That is all I have to say. I just needed to blow off steam. PS: I also mean this to those men out there being hurt by women. This goes the same way.

26 Mar 2005, 12:19	#10
Rob The Badger Too sexy for this post Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Manchester, UK Posts: 2,895	Typo., Perhaps. But you're blowing things out of proportion. Police? Please...

24 Mar 2005, 21:43	#2
Tim The Butcher Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Westervoort, The Netherlands Posts: 10,321	Wow... see you are upset and angry. Some people have all the nerves and do everything. Just sick, really sick!!

24 Mar 2005, 23:34	#3
Testify ragamuffin Join Date: 21.05.2003 Location: xxx daydreaming xxx Posts: 5,023	if in doubt kick him in the balls

25 Mar 2005, 00:23	#4
Biter Lurker Join Date: 12.07.2004 Location: Kent Posts: 1,067	You want me to come down hon? I'll rip the little ****ers scrotum off

25 Mar 2005, 16:10	#5
airhead the enchanted spleen Join Date: 12.02.2004 Location: ok, you see that sweet little cottage? I live next door in the nuthouse. Posts: 1,909	Will you really do that for me, Biter??? :) He had been driving me insane for a few months now, and the little ~~~~~~~ liked being hit!!!! So I drove him to humiliation, and he didn't speak to me for the rest of the day. i hope he doesn't move from me onto a girl who can't handle this kinda stuff.

25 Mar 2005, 23:42	#6
Rob The Badger Too sexy for this post Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Manchester, UK Posts: 2,895	Wow...maybe you should ride a bike instead.

26 Mar 2005, 00:42	#7
airhead the enchanted spleen Join Date: 12.02.2004 Location: ok, you see that sweet little cottage? I live next door in the nuthouse. Posts: 1,909	what???

26 Mar 2005, 02:05	#8
Rob The Badger Too sexy for this post Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Manchester, UK Posts: 2,895	Instead of getting angry and "humiliating" people. It's not good for your karma.

26 Mar 2005, 10:40	#9
Biter Lurker Join Date: 12.07.2004 Location: Kent Posts: 1,067	Yeah ed, I would. Give the word and I will be there tomorrow morning if I can find a way of driving up there. This happenned to me at work last thursday so I know exactly how you feel. Get the police involved as you can get the nobhead done for assault. Tell your teachers too. And Rob, if it happened to you, you'd be livid.

26 Mar 2005, 22:05	#11
Biter Lurker Join Date: 12.07.2004 Location: Kent Posts: 1,067	Why is it wrong to get the police involved? If he aint sorted out now, the little sod's gonna be doing it over and over again. No use telling the parents cos thay will probably do jack all. I have got the police on to the guy that attacked me and as a result I feel much safer. Ok, its company policy for me but it should apply wherever you are. Im gonna be accused of Sexism now or something silly like that but boys have it a hell of a lot easier than women. You hardly ever hear about a man being assaulted like that wheras it happens many times daily for women and I for one am sick of it. Some people think they have the right to do anything and it isnt on. I can argue this point for hours, and if I need to, I will. Unless it has happened to you Rob, you aint got no idea what it feels like and I hope you never will. Jen x

27 Mar 2005, 00:38	#12
Rob The Badger Too sexy for this post Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Manchester, UK Posts: 2,895	Sexist. The reason that you do not hear about men being assaulted in this way is because traditional gender roles force males to feel ashamed of being beaten or assaulted by a woman. Therefore the report rate is lower. Also, did you know that a woman cannot be convicted of rape? Think about that before you throw your feminist radicalism around.

27 Mar 2005, 04:34	#13
Biter Lurker Join Date: 12.07.2004 Location: Kent Posts: 1,067	Whos chucking feminist radicalism around? Its a fact of life. Genetically, men are bigger and rougher than women and im not ashamed to say that. Also, women are a hell of a lot more vunerable. Put yourself in my shoes - I go to work. I get sexually assaulted while doing my job. Thankfully somebody got me out of that situation before it got really ugly. Emma goes to school/out with friends and gets assaulted in the same way. Does that make it any less traumatic? Before you start having a go at her for fighting back and tell her to "ride a bike" in case karma creeps up and bites her in the arse, think about the people who have had to actually go through it. As I said in my last post, I hope you never experience it but its a cold fact that millions upon millions of women have to suffer it and its almost like its brushed under the carpet. I agree that most men will feel emasculated by admitting they are being beaten up by a woman (as you said, there are hardly any reported cases) but the truth is it happens a hell of a lot less than if the tables were turned. Im not condoning it, as I think all people that commit violence against "loved" ones are the lowest forms of life. And yes, I did know that in this country a woman cannot be charged with rape. They can be charged with harassment, statuatory(sp?) rape and sexual assault but who brought up rape, Rob? If you wanna speak about that, we can speak about that, but not on here. Now I, for one, am sick of arguing with you. Im on here to try to comfort my best friend, who I cant phone at the moment for reasons I'm not gonna go into. She didn't ask to be almost snapped at. Goodnight.

27 Mar 2005, 11:49	#14
scotty Mega Loafer Join Date: 25.11.2003 Location: Harlow Essex Posts: 1,166	As a man I would like to say you have been victims of the male minority, It deeply saddens me and I almost feel ashamed when you hear stories of rape,sexual harrasment etc, But please don't tie all of the male population with the same brush, These perverts are sick and warped but believe me they are a tiny minority!

27 Mar 2005, 12:35	#15
Rob The Badger Too sexy for this post Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Manchester, UK Posts: 2,895	I for one, Bitey, am sick of being treated as somehow inferior to women because I'm stonger and bigger than a lot of them. Get off your moral high horse. Sorry it happened to you and all but you need to realise the world doesn't really care. Perhaps if you see what really happens everyday, genocide, war, pestilance you'd probably think a few fellahs looking for a bit o' grab at your expense isn't that pertinent.

27 Mar 2005, 17:43	#16
Biter Lurker Join Date: 12.07.2004 Location: Kent Posts: 1,067	Yeah, I know NO-ONE CARES and thats why im so f'in angry. The only people those that have sufferred it can turn to is themselves. Even their friends dont support them. Ive just realised what a ****ing idiot I am even bothering to argue with you. Every time I make a valid point, you throw "feminism" in my face and its almost like you patronise everybody, male and female, that this has happened to. Yes, its ignored, and it bloody hurts that nobody takes it seriously. Now I know why I didnt bother coming online for a week. And dont call me bitey. ever.

29 Mar 2005, 00:30	#17
airhead the enchanted spleen Join Date: 12.02.2004 Location: ok, you see that sweet little cottage? I live next door in the nuthouse. Posts: 1,909	thanks biter, only i get to call ya bitey. Thank you, and yes, rob its true its happened to me in a total of three times (yes, THREE times a man has "assulted" me) and i'm so lucky it hasn't been rape yet, just invasion. Why do you think i dont go in the local pet shop anymore??? Perv tried to get me into the back of the shop last summer. Rob, it doesn't have to be rape to hurt. Even the first touch somewhere can be incredibly anger and hurt inducing, so why lay down and let the little ~~~~~~~ walk all over you and treat you like an object? I KNOW you would say the same rob. YOU GET OFF YOUR HIGH MORALS HORSE. And i can't ring Biter very much because she goes to work and I'm busy at night with GCSE homework. hugs jenna thanx, mate. love, the airhead.

29 Mar 2005, 02:11	#18
Biter Lurker Join Date: 12.07.2004 Location: Kent Posts: 1,067	Send me your number? Pleeeeeeeeeeeease? Ooh and I got that utter ****ball that attacked me today. I got a bit roughed up but now the police have got him. Which is good.

29 Mar 2005, 16:16	#19
airhead the enchanted spleen Join Date: 12.02.2004 Location: ok, you see that sweet little cottage? I live next door in the nuthouse. Posts: 1,909	who hurt ya? Can i come down to dagenham and tie his tongue to an icy lamppost and cut his nipples off with a rusty breadknife please? I hope he goes DOWN. And yes, the little shit who upset me i going down tonight. He has been doing the exact thing to one of my best friends and me and her are gonna teach him a thing or two about women. What goes around, comes around, mike!!!!

29 Mar 2005, 19:05	#20
Biter Lurker Join Date: 12.07.2004 Location: Kent Posts: 1,067	Be careful....

30 Mar 2005, 01:16	#21
airhead the enchanted spleen Join Date: 12.02.2004 Location: ok, you see that sweet little cottage? I live next door in the nuthouse. Posts: 1,909	It didn't happen. Oh well. I've been trying ta ring ya, jen, no ones answering your home!

30 Mar 2005, 11:57	#22
Biter Lurker Join Date: 12.07.2004 Location: Kent Posts: 1,067	Tis cos i'm never in!!!!

30 Mar 2005, 16:19	#23
Rob The Badger Too sexy for this post Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Manchester, UK Posts: 2,895	You must be the unluckiest person in the world if this just happens to you all the time. Either that or you dress suggestively. No one does care, and no one cares that it pisses you off. Also, I don't patronise anyone, I'm honest. Din't think that was something to be ashamed of.

30 Mar 2005, 16:53	#25
Fallen Angel Youth Gone Wild Join Date: 19.09.2003 Location: See the mad one over there.... Posts: 693	Hey, Unforunatley i can relate to Eddie's situation but sadly there was nothing i thought i could do about it. Rob why were you having a go? We should all stick together n support each other N.M.W!!! Eddie, hun, you ever need help give us a shout. hugs leeann